After long time of dreaming, I finally arranged a session with a local professional Mistress/Domme, to be used as a basement slave.

I was pegged hard and made to suck and choke on the strapon, but the best part for me, was the whipping! She used a bullwhip(if thats what you call it), whipping my back and my ass. While I was screaming gagged from the pain, a small burn on my skin would pass by. She would whip me 3-4 times, and then stop. Just in the right time.

Question: In scale of pain, I asked her to go at 8. But I can’t remember how we call it! Is it scale? grade? where base on the number you say, she applies her hits.

  • weird_alt@lemmynsfw.comMEnglish
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    4 months ago

    Very happy for you ☺️ Pain can be such a nice thing, especially when your play partner has a good sense of how much you can take and knows what they are doing. Really sounds like you had an amazing time.

    I always love the aftermath and the marks it leaves, reminding one self of that good time. We’re you left with any nice marks or bruises?

    In terms of a pain scale, I don’t think there is a universal method. In medical settings you sometimes get asked to rate your pain on 0 to 10 (NRS: Numerical Rating Scale), but that is very subjective. In my personal experiences, there is no upper limit to pain. You can always go harder and more extreme. It’s way more important to discover what your personal upper limits are and define your scale from 0-10. That’s why it’s very good to do pain play with the same people that you did it with before, as they will learn what you can take and adjust the session accordingly, without going to far.

    • sasoni75@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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      4 months ago

      I had one whip on the front side, which left me one mark;, but to me, it’s more of a memory lol.
      I had been whipped once again before, but it was with a flogger, and the level of pain was 5. This time, I wanted higher, because of the roleplay.

      I agree communication and pain play is always the key! No matter if she is a pro domme or your wife.

      Thanks for the info.