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  • I hope you don’t mind but I read through your lemmynsfw history out of curiosity.

    You seem to lean trans-fem/sissy to me?, rather than what I personally thought of as an IM. Not that you can’t be both! Just a different perspective from mine.

    I think of myself as an IM because I personally live outwardly as a straight “man” (even though I’d be ok with the queer label). Possibly due to my inadequacy, I’ve come to love stereotypical man stuff - I’m a muscular gym-rat, drive a truck, fix things, etc. lol. I’m well adjusted though, not an over the top aggressive hot head/jerk. Sometimes I wish I was a gay bottom guy. Sexually speaking it seems that would be easier. I have experimented with gay sex to test things out, but alas I’m not sexually attracted to the typical masculine form at all. I love, and am attracted to, the feminine form - but due to my inadequacy I have a HUGE (literal and figurative) cock fetish. My ideal/dream situation, I would be something like a house-boy for some top trans-woman. I could fix her car, mow the lawn, go the gym every day to maintain a masculine physique. Then in the evening she could make fun of my little vestige, maybe even force me into fem clothes to laugh at me. Then she’d rail me with her big dick. Anyway, one can dream!





  • I wanted to make sure I was including trans-folk, but I realized the measurement criteria could be a challenge. Of course bio males would have the same challenge, but all that’s needed is a little creativity for most cases. I just cheated for trans-folks and explicitly stated they must self-identify.

    I’m not really happy with that now honestly.

    Of course one of the best parts is that failing the measurement is degrading and humiliating and IMs must come to terms with the fact and accept it. I feel I’m robing trans-folk of that and I should remove explicitly stating they must self-identify? Trusting folks read “Measurement and identification as an IM must be done with his knowledge and consent.” and understand completely what that means? But would it seem non-inclusive then?


  • Thanks for the read and feedback!

    Yeah, I wanted to make sure both trans men and women could be included - or not included. The measurement criteria of course is limiting to bio men as well, but a little creative measuring can be done there in most cases. I explicitly cheated for trans-folks and just said they can just self-identify - but maybe I shouldn’t have done that?

    their vestige will still require regular erection, otherwise you risk guaranteed permanent damage to the tissue

    Do pre-op trans-women stop having morning erections prior to waking up due to hormones that would require explicitly stimulating an erection? For caging, I’ll think I may add a note about making appropriate consensual heath considerations.

    Suggestion for the masturbation section: a vibrator or vibrating wand can be used to reach ejaculation, even if in chastity.

    Sigh, necessary, but icky thinking about this issue. Mentally, I’m not sure how it could be properly framed in the IMs masturbatory fantasies - allowing high-tech stimulation of his vestige???