And honestly, my answer to that is “who fucking cares”.
If you want to call yourself something because it makes you feel better, you should. If you don’t, you don’t. You don’t need to call yourself anything to want, do or be anything.
In my opinion, one of the worst things society has done since the 80s is to abandon the trend towards broad and unimportant distinctions, and move hard into “look all these hyperspecific labels that apply to me!”
Am I trans just because I sometimes would like to know how it would be to have a vulva? Or because I sometimes jerk off to women with dicks?
Am I gay because I sometimes fantasise about someone cuming inside my butt?
And honestly, my answer to that is “who fucking cares”.
If you want to call yourself something because it makes you feel better, you should. If you don’t, you don’t. You don’t need to call yourself anything to want, do or be anything.
In my opinion, one of the worst things society has done since the 80s is to abandon the trend towards broad and unimportant distinctions, and move hard into “look all these hyperspecific labels that apply to me!”
I’m not trans and I still wonder what it would be like to have a penis. My male partner is straight and insanely attracted to trans women.
Depends, do you fantasize about a guy cumming inside your butt or a woman? Lol
It’s a whole spectrum out there. Call yourself whatever makes you most comfortable.
I am pretty sure if we could just switch around at will, everyone but members of some religion would have tried both organs.
Mmm maybe! The straight people I know well are pretty rigid in their sexuality though so maybe not quite everyone would take that offer?
I’m really bisexual and a domme/sub switch, so my feelings of wondering what having a penis would be like are tied to that somewhat for me
It would be such fun to be able to just…try out whichever genitals we want, whenever we want!
but what if I can’t decide on which one to keep?
I see, you are asking the right questions.
have you imagined who’d do that?