Despite my one moment of sheer misandry, which I apologize for…I love you guys ❤️

I probably can’t offer much in the way of comfort…

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…I mean, all I can offer is my body, and I doubt you’d want that :P…

…but I really, truly, honestly appreciate all of you guys. Really 💜

Without men, my life would be pretty boring and honestly pointless. And I don’t just mean for sexual reasons…

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…well, the sexual reasons are a big and important part of it too, ngl, but they’re not the only reason.

I see and appreciate you. You matter 🩷
To me. To your families. To everyone here ❤️

This isn’t much comfort, but if any of you guys needs someone to talk to, my Matrix account is:
@horny_miisha:chat.blahaj.zone
Feel free to reach out!

You’re not alone. You’re never alone. I love you guys 💜

  • InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    2·
    19 hours ago

    Thanks.

    You matter independent of the work you do for others.

    I do need to re-internalize this from time to time.
    Like, rationally speaking, I do know this.
    I’m more than a fruit to extract juice from and then be discarded.
    In the heat of the moment though, I put others’ needs above my own, which means sometimes I’ll forget myself in the process.

    And yea, I’m blessed to have met my platonic soulmate, although somewhat late in life.

    • Teagan@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      3·
      16 hours ago

      Holy crap dude, you’re like… The guy version of what I lived in college… And am living the aftermath of now… Still… Years later…

      Please. I don’t know what you’re going through, but try to take a step back before its too late and stay strong. Be kind to yourself… Those you are supporting WILL want you to be okay too, and diving too deep may make things worse for everyone eventually… If you let yourself burn out, they may need, or at least feel the need to support you. Hell, you may even honestly need that if you go too deep. It is much better to pace yourself.

      An idol can become a warning…

      • InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        1·
        1 minute ago

        Thanks. You’re right, obviously.
        I even know what not to do, but I still tend to do it.
        I’m half-functioning when I’m in this deep, which makes everything even worse.

        Anyway…
        I took a half day off today just to spend some time in the present with my bestie and I haven’t felt this relieved in weeks.
        Little steps.