I think forgiveness is the wrong metric. It’s simply about understanding.
If someone ate my child to survive, I would probably never forgive them, but I could understand.
As this post illustrates, society deems female predators as less of a moral threat. If this post was from the POV of a woman saying “where were all the pedos when I was a teen” people would lose their shit.
I’m a victim of this intuition myself, though I justify it by considering the potential for physical abuse is much higher with men, even though mentally, statutory rape is probably comparable.
I think forgiveness is the wrong metric. It’s simply about understanding.
If someone ate my child to survive, I would probably never forgive them, but I could understand.
As this post illustrates, society deems female predators as less of a moral threat. If this post was from the POV of a woman saying “where were all the pedos when I was a teen” people would lose their shit.
I’m a victim of this intuition myself, though I justify it by considering the potential for physical abuse is much higher with men, even though mentally, statutory rape is probably comparable.