Hi! I’ve been extremely tired this week and nearly forgot that I was hosting one so I’m writing this last minute! I couldn’t think of anything so I’m going to write about one of my hamsters who is not Biggs; Meredith
Meredith was another hamster of mine from a few years ago during the early days of COVID, and she was the absolute sweetest little creature I had ever met. Very friendly, very gentle. She loved exploring anywhere I put her into and never bit me okay she did once ever. She was an absolute sweetheart and bundle of love and was with me during some of the rougher parts of my life
She unfortunately died very suddenly out of the blue one day at a terribly young age showing no symptoms of anything wrong with her prior, which breaks my heart to this very day
I never had her as long as any other hamster of mine but I don’t think I had any other hamster touch my heart in quite the same way. I miss you, girl
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I would like to announce that last month my egg may* have possibly cracked. Does anyone have any advice for experimenting with presenting fem when in a very masculine coded & non LGBT friendly field? (HVAC)
*I say may because I’m not sure what to do about these feelings or whether they make me trans or not. This describes my experience pretty accurately
I’ve also changed my mind on the button thought experiment, for most of my life I would decide to push it just to try out having a female body for little while but keep the opportunity to change back if I didn’t like it. But now I think I would want to push it even if the changes were permanent.
Well, if you can find women’s pants and shirts for your work that can be a small affirming thing and no one will be able to tell. If your hair is long enough you can try styling it sometimes at home. If you are alone/safe at home you can also just get whatever clothes you want to experiment with, preferably by thrifting so that it’s cheap and you don’t feel as bad if a piece doesn’t look great (but I understand that can be stressful so if it’s too much buying online is fine too)