be yourself, yap away, no point masking to pull someone who’ll hate your true self.
I call it social aposematism. become a bright red flag for people you don’t want to deal with, and you’ll be a massive green flag to people you want in your life.
and if you end up alone and miserable? that’s way, way better than ending with someone who hates your true self.
yhea, 100%.
be yourself, yap away, no point masking to pull someone who’ll hate your true self.
I call it social aposematism. become a bright red flag for people you don’t want to deal with, and you’ll be a massive green flag to people you want in your life.
and if you end up alone and miserable? that’s way, way better than ending with someone who hates your true self.