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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • You’ve conflated what’s been true for you with what must be true for everybody. Plenty of people go on cheap dates, you just seem mad it can’t be you.

    “Nobody goes on cheap walking dates, at least not proper adults” you have it in your head you cannot go on a cheap date. This is a YOU issue. Jesus man just go back and re-read some of your posts.

    “Women don’t want to go on waking dates” plenty of women would be down for that, maybe none that YOU are trying to date. Either that or you’ve been drowning in man-o-sphere bull shit telling you women only want a tall, tan, rich man or something.

    I’m not uncomfortable with anything you’ve said, could be projection there my guy.

    Again you talk about owning a home but that’s barely tangentially related to going on cheap dates. Again, it’s not your physical living conditions that is worrying, it’s your current mental state. Which would also negatively affect your ability to get dates.

    Yeah that last part is just true. You and me both actually.














  • IIRC prisoners died worldwide of heart attacks in the span of a few hours. The cops do mention the possibility of it being a coordinated attack from a global network somehow, I think one even jokes they suspect it was the CIA.

    But yeah, as to how L starts to think it was supernatural they never really go into it besides “he’s the world’s best (and 2nd and 3rd best) detective”.




  • I think I see it now. You have a parent who has no support system other than you and your sibling(s). Which then forces you to bend over backwards catering to them cuz you love them, they’re your parent. But you get resentful you have to do all this work for them though. You think “they wouldn’t be able to survive without me”. Which then gets extrapolated to “anybody without kids won’t be able to survive on their own”. And you can’t vent this frustration to the person you’re caring for so it comes out online.

    It’s your parent that has basically no support system, not you. But even people with kids can have no support system, having a kid doesn’t automatically mean they will care for you in old age.


  • Every accusation my friend :)

    You believe that when people get old they are fucked. And you just assume I don’t have kids because I pointed out there’s more support than just the state and immediate family. Hell, if you’re part of a church that’s another level of support.

    Family, friends, church, neighbors, immediate family, extended family… these are all layers of support. Somehow you think I’m trying to say that means they will 100% always be available for my use (sounds like your narcissistic protection here). When in reality each layer is meant to help insulate, but not completely eliminate, the need to go it alone. Yes, at the end of the day we are alone and only have ourselves to rely on, but that doesn’t have to be the only way you live, contrary to what you seem to think.

    Just because you have no support system doesn’t mean everyone in the world is the same. Maybe you’re angry that other people have robust support networks while you don’t. Idk.