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  • I’m the parent of a trans kid, I am not trans myself. We moved from a deep red state to Minnesota a few years ago, for reasons like yours, my sister and her wife made the move as well.

    I can’t tell you what the experience has been like for my son. I can tell you what it felt like from my perspective. The state we lived in is where our friends and family lived and mostly all still live. The state government was constantly coming up with new threats. Attempting to criminalize medical treatment for our kid. The school was… “Tolerant” but all of the actors didn’t act when presented with the harassment my kid dealt with.

    Everyone around us went about their lives as though nothing was happening, as my spouse and I felt the weight of a state government that ignored us at best and at worst seemed actively malicious.

    The weight we didn’t realize we were carrying constantly was enormous and it lifted quite quickly.

    It was hard on all of us, making new friends as an adult (and in a relatively rural community) feels impossible at times. But I don’t fear our state government.

    There are resources in the cities for transplants, even if you make the choice willingly it’s still a traumatic experience. You have to decide if it’s worth it.




  • I live in a fairly conservative area that’s working class.

    People intuitively understand when you describe how much capitalism sucks because they’re living it.

    If you say “capitalism sucks”, you are going to get reactionary thought and action. You have to say things in a way to engage their experience and understanding without tripping the propagandized brain worms.

    If you can do that, you’ll find that they’re primed to reject capitalism, they just don’t know it yet.

    “These rich fuckers don’t give a shit about us, but they have no problems helping each other out.”

    “Everybody’s boss is the same, they want you to work harder, more hours, and do it all for less money. They want us to be able to barely survive.”

    “The only way we can make them change is to all work together. They’ll screw over each one of us individually, but if we’re together they’ll know it’s actually them who needs us.”







  • I generally don’t do GUIs for C. But I’m also an embedded C person.

    When I have I’ll generate DLLs for the C portion then just pull them into a python based interface or something with easier to deal with gui implementations.

    Programming languages are tools. Would you use a wrench to drive a nail? You could. But it would be painful, you’re gonna miss and whack your hand at least once.

    If it’s a learning exercise, go for the C implementation, why not? I’ve written an XML parser in LabVIEW. (I never stopped to ask whether I should…) Is that the right tool for the job? Fuck no.

    If this is an exercise in software engineering be an engineer and use the 99% already built and verified system to do the job it’s meant to.

    Or you can write an entire theme park simulator in assembly because you like pain or something.





  • I can’t tell you that a baofeng is gonna outperform any of these radios. I can tell you that I’ve got two of them, a programming cable, a mag mount vhf/uhf antenna, a nagoya antenna, and an antenna I made out of some leftover Romex and a painting pole. All this was well within that budget.

    I can also tell you that I, not without some antenna placement experiments, can consistently activate a local repeater from around 15 miles. And have been complimented on audio quality on multiple occasions.

    You are not going to find an ht with a rubber duck antenna that’s going to perform the way you’d like. You will need to try out some different things.

    Save yourself some heartache and get an sma to BNC adapter for the radios you wanna play with some antennas on and some whatever your antennas have to bnc adapters, get a few antennas instead of another ht, and just try stuff out. Or hell, throw $16 bucks at a gt-5r, they’re clean transmitters now, the build quality is surprisingly good (on mine anyway) and even if it’s hot garbage you didn’t spend a fortune on it.

    You will always wonder if you’re screwing things up, you just get better and faster at diagnosing the issue through practice.