
My primary issue with windows is that teams and outlook are getting less usable, and their “updates” regularly break my workflow and/or toolchains.
It’s done nothing but get worse and feel more predatory, there’s ads in the start menu now. This wasn’t a thing like 5 years ago.
So I take umbrage with the sentiment that there’s nothing functionally wrong with windows.













I’m the parent of a trans kid, I am not trans myself. We moved from a deep red state to Minnesota a few years ago, for reasons like yours, my sister and her wife made the move as well.
I can’t tell you what the experience has been like for my son. I can tell you what it felt like from my perspective. The state we lived in is where our friends and family lived and mostly all still live. The state government was constantly coming up with new threats. Attempting to criminalize medical treatment for our kid. The school was… “Tolerant” but all of the actors didn’t act when presented with the harassment my kid dealt with.
Everyone around us went about their lives as though nothing was happening, as my spouse and I felt the weight of a state government that ignored us at best and at worst seemed actively malicious.
The weight we didn’t realize we were carrying constantly was enormous and it lifted quite quickly.
It was hard on all of us, making new friends as an adult (and in a relatively rural community) feels impossible at times. But I don’t fear our state government.
There are resources in the cities for transplants, even if you make the choice willingly it’s still a traumatic experience. You have to decide if it’s worth it.