

Not at all. I am saying that we cannot all have our own digital Versailles and servants forever after. We can have our own digital living room and kitchen and take turns hosting friends there, but we have to do the work, and it will never be big or glamorous. Valente could have said ābig social media sucks but small open web things are greatā but instead she wants the benefits of big corporate services without the drawbacks.
I have been an open web person for decades. There is lots of space there to explore. But I do not believe that we will ever find a giant corporation which borrows money from LutherCorp and Bank of Mordor, builds a giant āfreeā service with a slick design, and never runs out of money or starts stuffing itself with ads.

I agree that a big part of the problem is financialized capitalism (whether VC money or Redditās stock market speculation or the Putin regime realizing that they could just buy LiveJournal). We also have the right to take generous paychecks from Substack, or host all our video on Youtube for free. But we canāt expect that Substack will be as generous forever or YouTube could offer exactly what it offers today minus the ads and tracking and pay for itself. There are lots of Internet communities which are decentralized or nonprofit or democratically governed but they donāt have the budgets of giant corporate services.
Online communities can also fade for mundane reasons like āfailure to recruit new members as fast as old members leaveā or āfounders have a tiff and the community breaks up into warring factionsā or āold site was designed for laptops and dialup, now we have smartphones and broadband, but our user base does not want to change.ā Financial speculation make this worse but community management is hard.