I strongly, strongly dislike the way you are framing pedophilia. All CSA is based around the vulnerability of the victim. Child sexual abusers are aware of what they are doing. No one is driven by such strong compulsion that they must sexually assault someone. It’s exactly as evil and wrong no matter the age of their victim. All CSA is wrong. All sexual abuse is wrong.
Trans woman - 10 years HRT
Intersectional feminist
Queer anarchist
- 3 Posts
- 338 Comments
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Technology@beehaw.org•This Spiral-Obsessed AI 'Cult' Spreads Mystical Delusions Through ChatbotsEnglish
421·5 days agoProviding the general public with convincing text generation has been an absolute unmitigated disaster for humanity.
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•This is not easy to say but I’m scared and running out of options. Please don’t scroll, consider reading throughEnglish
2·10 days agoDid you actually read the African human rights commission link? It specifically says that there legitimate LGBT people in the area who need help. It is calling out scammers because their scams will be used to dismiss actual queer refugees who actually need help.
If you want to demand further verification you can ask moderators of this community or others to do that. You can also ask gofundme to do that. People have already done both of those things in the past and she has been verified to be a real person. To do this bizarre public condemnation ritual cause she once went to a refugee camp that has had scammers there is just wrong. It’s an extreme overgeneralization and the way youre applying your “evidence” basically works to dismiss the entire country as a scam. Which obviously isn’t true.
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•This is not easy to say but I’m scared and running out of options. Please don’t scroll, consider reading throughEnglish
3·10 days agoShe isnt in Kakuma, she was in the past. Your other comment also seems to be just listing random cases of people suspected of scamming and not actual evidence about Cyara herself. Her gofundme posts the actual wire transfers themselves. She routinely posts pictures of herself and has been verified several times by other moderators. I have communicated with her over text several times about possible routes out of South Sudan to a country where her rights would be respected.
I understand the need to vet these kinds of posts. But no not every person who has been to a particular refugee camp is automatically a scammer? Like saying “This specific refugee camp has been scamming the queer community for literally years at this point” is wild. Are you trying to say its not a real place? Or that no actual queer people can possibly have gone there? Merely ever having been there once means you’re a scammer? Like that’s not proof of anything.
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
People Twitter@sh.itjust.works•Hunting for Jade Coochie EggsEnglish
4·11 days agoNearly every major company in North America is pushing AI. It is literally everywhere. We have long sense crossed the point of no return. The only thing that could meaningfully impact it would be legislation against it. And thats definitely not happening.
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•[Q & Vent] How to cope with pregnancy dysphoria?English
4·12 days agoI commented this on a previous post about pregnancy dysphoria. Still holds true to how i feel,
I’ve mostly made peace with the fact that it will never happen. It hurts very badly sometimes but it is what it is. I really want to be a mom one day, and when I am able to I will love my children with all my heart. For me, being a mom is my life’s dream. I wish I could conceive my own children but, I can’t. Someday it will be a reality for women like us but it’s not there yet and I’m really not holding out any hope that it will be within my life time. Even if it does happen in my lifetime I don’t want to spend my life waiting for something that is unlikely to ever happen for me. Focusing on how ultimately being a mom itself is my dream has helped me cope. Because that is something I can work towards today.
I really strongly empathize with this pain though. I’ve cried myself to sleep over it many times. I hope you’re able to find what helps make it easier for you.
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Don't use ai, use me :3English
3·14 days agoI love Sailor Jupiter. Just finishing season 4 with my friend right now. Sailor Mercury will always be my favorite I think haha
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Science Memes@mander.xyz•Health Secretary Kennedy says there's 'not sufficient' proof to show Tylenol causes autismEnglish
8·20 days agoIt doesnt matter really, evidence is really irrelevant to the entire thing at this point. The people tuning in do not understand what autism is to begin with, let alone what evidence would even mean in this context.
I won’t be surprised when studies show in a few years a large drop in Tylenol use during pregnancy (probably overall use too), and the diagnosis rate of autism continues the overall increasing trend (as we become better at diagnosing it).
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Bathroom etiquette questionEnglish
12·25 days agoI generally dont ask if anyone wants to come with. If anyone has to go I feel like they usually will be like oh I have to go too and then come along. Sometimes I will ask close friends if they have to go too. Especially if the bathrooms are far from where we’re sitting / dancing.
If you also have to go at the same time yeah for sure you can be like oh ill come with i have to go too.
I do wait if we’re both going to the bathroom at the same time. Usually just stand by the door after I wash my hands. But it depends how well I know the person ig and if we had been talking. Some women are super chatty and will talk to you the whole time haha but I feel like most of us aren’t. It’s just nice to group up.
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Had a date with a heterosexual man for the first time. He had a hard-on when we cuddled. It felt strangely validating.English
253·27 days agoI cannot wrap my head around where this was coming from or how you could possibly believe this was supportive. She made a post about a validating experience with a date, and you immediately thought to counter her validation? How tf is that supportive
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Cisgender Boy Forced to Play on Girls' Sports Team Because of Birth Certificate ErrorEnglish
28·27 days agoSex segregation in childrens sports is legitimately a powerful indoctrinating force for binary sexism and the enforcement of gender roles.
Granddroids is incredible, I love it
Ah, I see they adapted their on-boarding program from the police recruitment process.
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
politics @lemmy.world•Analysis: Trump’s response to ‘No Kings’ marches only proved the protesters’ pointEnglish
1·30 days agodeleted by creator
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoLGBTQ+@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Federal Judge Rules In Favor Of Public Schools In 16 States That Refused To Comply With Trump's Trans BanEnglish
23·30 days agoI feel like youre saying this weirdly in response to a coalition of school boards refusing to discriminate against their trans students? They are definitionally looking out for the humans. Unless you think trans students do not constitute “the humans”.
Actual genuine nightmare fuel. This is not a lifestyle conducive to human health. Living this way is killing us.
LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•First post, first time going out with fem clothesEnglish
8·1 month agoSuper cute! Hope you have a lovely day 😊
Cold water, separate white items. It really only takes a couple minutes. Eventually even if there isnt an immediate stark change in tint on the item, over time it’ll steadily become more and more off-white. It looks noticeably worse imo.



So like I said in my previous comment, no one is driven by such strong compulsion that they must sexually assault someone. Being a pedophile is not a sexual orientation it is literally a desire to commit sexual violence. If someone told me “I am so driven to commit acts of sexual violence against rhe vulnerable that I am voluntarily putting myself into a mental health facility” my first thought would be that I hope they are being involuntarily held.
Pedophilia is not a disability. No i am not being ableist by directly correlating pedophilia with rapists. They are literally obsessed with rape. They see children as a means to an end for their personal sexual gratification. I would react to someone saying they are a pedophile the same way as if someone told me they desperately want to sexually assault someone.
Being a pedophile is not a sexual orientation. It is not a sexuality.