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Cake day: September 25th, 2023

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  • I’m just reminding you that no amount of maple leaves will cover for rude and obnoxious behaviour.

    You did it with generalized statements that showed a bias based on nationality. It’s always fun to see comments like yours because it’s classic confirmation bias.

    Those types of American tourists stand out for their behavior and you come to expect it and look for it, you don’t see the ones that make an effort, that try to follow local customs and norms and be polite guests.

    To be fair, I can’t really blame you. I don’t like American “tourists” in my state. I often find myself checking plates while driving and grumbling about tourists screwing up the local traffic.








  • Reiterating what others have said about talking to an attorney. Most will consult with you for free and you’ll know if you have a case.

    Anecdote: my brother is an attorney and I got really sick, spent a month hospitalized and when I got out had to move back to my parents house because I needed help day to day while I got better.

    My brother broke my lease on my apartment using ADA rules (I’m in the US) but they tried to keep my deposit for normal wear and tear items.

    All it took was a letter to the corporate office on his firm’s legal letterhead, with the relevant statutes that said they couldn’t keep my deposit for the items they listed, and a reminder that if we sued and won they’d owe me double in damages plus all costs and his fee.







  • I’m an ‘84 baby like you and recently I’ve been trying to remember when the last time I actually felt national pride.

    I keep thinking maybe in the general upswell of national pride post 9/11 but that was probably mostly mob mentality and juvenile ignorance.

    I am proud to be a Minnesotan though! When I’m abroad in the country the other Americans I meet seem generally decent but it just doesn’t feel like home if I’m outside of my state.




  • Bingo. This was my take before I met my wife and early in our relationship. When it came time to talk about the future and we discussed marriage I asked what she wanted. For my part, I told her that I didn’t need a piece of paper from the government or a magic ceremony to commit myself to her fully.

    She wanted a wedding and marriage and I wanted to give that to her. It was immediate family only, at home, with a retired judge performing a ceremony we wrote.

    From a legal perspective it can be immensely more complicated long term and will almost certainly be financially more disadvantageous within the US system if you’re American to not be married.