Audentes Fortuna Iuvat

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Cake day: August 25th, 2024

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  • This line is interesting from this article (no paywall or ads).

    “Thinking about business cards in the future, they are destined to go the same way as the tie. Some people will use them but they will not serve any real purpose other than to simply establish an image about the person or the company they work for”.

    I think that feels about right. It hadn’t even occurred to me to compare it to tie wearing, but I think it’s true. Maybe 2 out of 30 people now wear any kind of suit or tie to the groups I go to and it used to be the standard. I haven’t had to order any new cards in over 2 years and it used to be every six months.



  • That guy’s so funny “If you think that’s insane hit subscribe!!” Wait what? These idiots reveal their agenda so quickly. Windows is fine. Honestly, I’m speaking to you from outside the bubble and we’re all ok. Everything’s running fine and updates are happening without any issue for most of us. This sweaty bearded salesman is just dog whistling Linux users and “mentally vulnerable” Windows users. If you think switching operating systems is going to go smoothly for you, boy do I have a bridge I want to sell you. “Everyone Hates Windows Right Now” yeah right 🤣


  • The only thing more certain to exist till the end of time than prostitution is people complaining about it. I like it because it makes something explicit that is implicit in so many apparently non transactional relationships. There are so many people who say prostitution should be banned, who are also in relationships/marriages where they expect sex for shelter, food, safety or whatever. Prostitution makes the transaction clear. People point to the exploitative nature of it, but then reveal their real agenda by also rejecting the idea of making it safer for the people selling access to their bodies. The whole thing is a massively hypocritical pile of double standards. Mix into that cultures with backwards patriarchal religious doctrines and that’s where you get the really angry people who talk about dishonor and stoning and all that jazz. Prostitution has been around since there were people and will always be around. When the puritans are in charge it just hides for a bit. This has been my TED talk, thanks lol










  • That there’s an aspect of every relationship that always starts the same. It’s two people bringing richness to each other, almost like Kings and Queens coming together bringing their lands and wealth with them.

    Over time though that richness can fade and instead of bringing richness they start begging for it from the other person. If you find that you’re in a relationship with someone and that both of you have turned into “beggars” whose life can only be complete if the other person performs a task or meets an expectation, the relationship will weaken and that weakness will invite other problems.

    The solution, if you have become a “beggar” in a relationship, is to mentally detach yourself from the other person and spend some time alone trying to reconnect with what made you a rich resource in the first place. You must remind yourself what it was that made you a King or Queen and focus on regrowing those seeds of richness and independence from the other person. Then, once you have placed that crown back on your head you can return to the other person and offer your richness once again.

    I’ve never forgotten that and it’s led to a happy marriage for 14 years. Also works with friendships and working/business relationships.





  • The butthurt and hate over AI sounds like a new thing but I think it’s basically your 2001: A space odyssey monolith monkey scene ⬛️🐒. It’s how we’ve reacted to every big sudden advance in technology that we weren’t quite ready for. There’s going to be a whole lot more leaping and screaming and throwing things. There will probably be some big fights over it and then some of the more sensible monkeys will just settle down, decide to just use the useful things and ignore the dumb things. There’s probably something much much worse than AI coming up anyway. Guarantee that there will be some people 30 years from now, trying to survive whatever it is and reminiscing about how we thought it was AI that was going to destroy us.