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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I, too, played as a kid, and then again as a teenager, before coming back to the fold about seven years ago.

    My dad ran a campaign for my family when I was six or seven. I remember spilling my kool-aid all over the table when we turned a corner and my dad said “You see… a MINOTAUR!”

    As a teenager I played with friends and at a local college, and often ended up being the DM.

    Then seven years ago, my aunt and uncle invited me to a game their daughter’s husband was starting.

    After about a year I convinced my Dad to join us. It’s worth mentioning that all of us are neurodiverse in some respect, and as such have always been my favorite relatives.

    Then COVID hit and I started running a game for my board gaming friends, and started one with my family playgroup as well.

    I’ve created a world and plotline, I’ve run published adventures, and I’m even working on a supplement for the Witchlight adventure that I will publish on the official site.















  • I have a weekly D&D game with my favorite aunt and uncle, as well as my Dad and my cousin’s husband.

    The latter runs one weekend, and I run the next, completely separate games of course.

    I’m 51, my dad is 79, and his sister and her husband are a few years younger than he is. No idea on my fellow DM, I suspect late 40s.

    If you find a common thread to hang on to, you can have a great relationship.

    In this case, my aunt and uncle knew I was a huge weird nerd whose dad introduced him to D&D at 7 years old, so they thought to invite me when their daughter’s husband made a game for them.

    Seven years later, we are still at it and I run a game for my friends as well.

    These relationships can be nurtured, as all can. You just have to find and maintain the why’s.

    Even people who don’t give a crap about birdwatching may still love to see the birds their old friends spot.

    But to further your point, I don’t make much of an effort for those relatives that I don’t have much in common with.

    This year’s Christmas present is a box of homemade fudge, rice krispie treats, and spicy chex mix, all homemade.

    That’s the effort I put in for those I don’t have in my weekly or monthly life but are extended family.