Well, nobody’s looking at my photos and thinking “That’s guy looks tall”, unless they say add “for an Asian man… sorta,” so really this is just saving us all some time.

It’s easy to have inexplicable experiences when you are bad at explanation!

Every once in a while I try to play Dear McCracken and sing through the last part. The way I start ugly crying means I can’t put it on a playlist where I’ll actually pay attention to the song.

I run Ghost on my website (reilaos.com) though I don’t really use it in a “blogging”/journaling style. It’s mostly posts related to writing, computers science, game design.

My eagerness to actually use it will increase once Ghost’s support for ActivityPub spreads to the wider world.

It’s a little bit of a generational/cultural gap, I think! Like how Ok. and Ok... are fully normal to boomers, but anyone millennial and younger are going to read that as being short, or as an ominous trailing off compared to the neutral, no-caps-no-punctuation kk or ok.

I think children up through the younger end of millennials are just more likely to give neutral-to-lightly-positive acknowledgement in other ways, like 🫡or ✅ or 🥰 or 💯. 👍 is reserved by some for lower enthusiasm or even a restrained, mild annoyance.

Depends on who’s saying it and to what, and in what manner (message reaction, its own separate text).

“Hey who wants pizza tonight?” in the group text.

Bunch of👍reactions mixed in with some 🍕 and 🕺

That’s normal and people agreeing with you.

“Hey could you pick up some toilet paper on the way home?”

👍 reaction.

That’s a neutral kind of acknowledgement.

“Hey man, that was pretty fucked what you said back at the party. I think the others want to talk to you about it.”

“👍”

That’s rude and dismissive, and not just an acknowledgement text.

It’s a little strange that you think “I want feature parity with what’s working for me (from my perspective)” is:

1. A lie.
2. Unreasonable to ask for.

The healthy responses would be “Well, I hope either support grows or your needs change, because of some philosophical reasons you might not care about… yet” or, if they’re open to it “Oh, it can do this if you put a little work in, let me help you.”

The unhealthy response is to accuse people of moving goalposts as if someone’s tool of choice is a political debate. It can be, obviously, given FOSS philosophies, but honestly this kind of screed just drives people away.