When I worked for a startup we’d sometimes go out for lunch and everyone would have a drink or two. We also kept beer in the office fridge but that was reserved for more Friday afternoons.

Yes but there are ways to protect against that. For instance you can configure Tailscale clients to only trust nodes that have been signed by trusted nodes, or something like that.

Hmm maybe, it was noticeably improved after 9 months for me.

I’m on Venlafaxine and the sexual dysfunction side effect does subside over time (months), at least that was my experience.