homhom9000 [she/her]

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Cake day: May 25th, 2022

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  • I want to tell my coworkers “it only takes you this long to do things because you don’t know what you’re doing, if you knew what you were doing it wouldn’t take you this long”. My autistic brain sees that as a pep talk to just learn the thing and all will be good but my friend said there’s an emotional aspect that comes into play that I’m neglecting.

    I don’t find the relevance because we’re not talking emotion we’re talking skills, a binary either you have or do not and if you do not you can gain; since you do not have then simply gain. I conceptually understand how it could be taken offensively but I can’t help but see it as a reccomendation to gain a skill/telling someone to learn something for their own betterment. They factually do not know what they’re doing, that’s why I typically send courses and articles on the skill they need or explain how things work to them when they reach out.

    more rantings

    Like when it takes them 2 days to do something then their other priorities get delayed or reassigned, giving more work for the remaining team including myself. If the remaining team is unavailable then they can’t be relied upon to complete their task. If they instead get the skill that keeps delaying them, then they will stop getting task reassigned and the remaining team can continue with their regular work load. I am a proud bare minimum worker. I only do the bare minimum according to my standards with no impact on the rest of my team i.e. not increasing their work due to my proud bare minimumness. I can’t do bare minimum when I get extra work that’s already past due 😑