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  • I last left this morning for work. The last I left for my own enjoyment was last weekend for the Pride parade. (State of GA in the USA celebrates in October for some reason.)


    (I tried to spoiler this bottom part since you didn’t ask for advice, but I guess I don’t know how. Sorry.)

    I suffer from chronic depression, so I might know something of what you’re going through. Hang in there, friend. It gets better, eventually.

    Also, I know this probably sounds ridiculous (it does to me when I remind myself of it while depressed, especially since I’m also autistic and antisocial) but the safety of home makes depression worse for me. It’s the last thing that I want to do while depressed, but it really does help tremendously to get out and do something. Anything. Go to the grocery store and buy a ramen or whatever, it doesn’t matter. Go through the human line to checkout so that you have to interact with a person in some capacity. It’s silly, but it does help me a tiny bit.

    The next day, try to do it again, it helps a tiny bit again. Eventually all the tiny little bits add up, maybe, but even if they don’t then at least it’s a tiny bit better all along.







  • Because of investors needing a quick “win” with a game studio acquisition, and because gamers buy the slop that someone managed to shit out while trying to appease those investors.

    The investors cash out and are emboldened to go burn some other game studio into the ground again. If the studio hasn’t imploded badly enough yet, the investors demand another game with whatever IP “worked” last time, but at a lesser budget with more aggressive deadlines, so the next result that is shit out is worse, but players still buy it.

    The cycle continues endlessly, it’s the same pattern in every industry because it’s all the same tiny group of investors with “diversified portfolios” ruining everything in the name of profit.




  • Luke@lemmy.mltoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldLanguage
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    13 days ago

    Respectfully, I think the inverse is true. A kid is going to use the words anyway, all you’re doing by trying to prevent them from using them is signaling that you aren’t a safe person for them to be themselves around.

    Teaching my kid not to use certain words sometimes was easy and went something like this: “Some people (like grandpa and when you’re at school) don’t like to hear words like ‘fuck’, and it’s good to be nice to people, so if you aren’t sure whether someone wants to hear ‘fuck’ then try to avoid it.”



  • Luke@lemmy.mltoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml*Permanently Deleted*
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    16 days ago

    Intelligence is a difficult thing to measure, especially merely by interacting with a person for a little while.

    Many of the answers in this thread amount to privileged assumptions that fail to account for the fact that what they describe as signs of lacking intelligence could also be symptoms of exhaustion and alienation inherent to conditions such as living under a capitalist system and/or neurodiversity and/or disability and/or sickness and/or…

    For example, when someone works 16 hours a day for 5/6 days a week, they are far less likely to have the energy for using their little free time away from work to ponder deep questions at the same level as someone privileged enough to have a less demanding existence. This is not correlated with their intelligence in any way.