I’m a climate scientist by trade. Interested in interesting things. Ecology, complexity, politics, social change, music.
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naught101@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•If you actually have feelings for someone, can you not want to be romantic with them?5·5 days agoIt’s not contradictory. Feelings and actions are not the same thing.
Maybe I really like ice cream (feeling), but it don’t actually want to eat it (action) because I’m worried about something unrelated, like my weight.
naught101@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•If you actually have feelings for someone, can you not want to be romantic with them?5·5 days agoYes, absolutely. Both are possible. Different peoplwith different experiences and tendencies operate differently.
Also, there are lots of different types of love. https://www.ftd.com/blog/types-of-love
naught101@lemmy.worldto New Communities@lemmy.world•Community for people with asthma!English8·5 days agoAssume this is not meant to be NSFW?
Big thread on this here:
naught101@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are the odds that we are all in a simulation?3·14 days agoProbably about the same as for whether a god exists.
naught101@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated?2·14 days agoThen I’ll do it. If it doesn’t cost me too much. I can’t see someone else’s perspective really, but I can at least be empathetic…
naught101@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated?2·15 days agoYeah, that’s always gotta be true to some extent… If not, then the apology is gonna be insincere anyway. But it doesn’t mean that the regret has to be massive for you for the apology to be valid or useful.
naught101@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated?2·15 days agoI get that this is a joke, but there’s a good point there too: I don’t give apologies because they were demanded, if give them because I can see that they’d help improve the situation.
naught101@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated?3·15 days agoYeah, I’m definitely assuming good faith above. I’m lucky that I’m mostly surrounded by people for whom that assumption makes sense.
naught101@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated?281·16 days agoYes… Apologies aren’t about fault for me. They are about recognising other’s suffering, and possibly about acknowledging my contribution to that situation.
The apology isn’t about you, it’s about the other person, and showing you care about them.
Perfect
naught101@lemmy.worldto Data is Beautiful@mander.xyz•August, 2025 temperatures in two Lithuanian cities, compared to 1991-2020 temperatures (meteo.lt)English3·16 days agoIs the red line the average, and the green line the difference?
naught101@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why are a lot of statues vandalised with traffic cones in Scotland?7·18 days agoSomething to fill time while waiting for the kebab you ordered?
naught101@lemmy.worldto Australia@aussie.zone•France to sue Australian platform for 'negligence' after livestream deathEnglish9·18 days agoIf platforms are providing affordances for abuse and profiting off it, then they are too.
naught101@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•40 (or plus) y/o virgins, why are you still virgin?92·18 days agoI think it probably starts a long way before a kiss or a touch. At least, I’d hope it does.
naught101@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are some methods of distributed civil disobedience for Americans?1·19 days agoSure, getting arrested is always a risk with civil disobedience. I’ve been to a few corporate and political party office sit-ins. Usually we’ve had one or two people (sometimes hundreds) volunteer to be arrested, and others leave before it gets to that point. How risky that is for the ones leaving early will depend a lot on how the authorities act in your jurisdiction though.
With the monastery example, how do you play it? Just chuck everyone in a room and see what happens? Sequential encounters? Is there a narrative flow, or just basically a mini sandbox?
I wasn’t taking about an individual, I was talking about humans as a species and culture.
naught101@lemmy.worldto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Writing was invented before reading.16·20 days agoNo. You can read signs. Like foot prints, or fire scars. Or you can count actually objects before you invent tallying.
Didn’t Fuentes deny it though? Not that I’d put it past him to lie, but I don’t think there’s any hard evidence that Robinson was…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Killing_of_Charlie_Kirk#Evidence_and_leads