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Cake day: May 30th, 2025

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  • I’m in the exact same boat right now! My wife got me out of the apartment in women’s clothes for the first time a couple days ago, and when we bumped into someone she was in school with, she introduced me as her spouse and we had talked about using the word wife, and i thought I’d be fine with it, but I was shocked by how much it stung! Dysphoria is weird, and I keep saying meat was not meant to think lol




  • The trick of wearing the front of the gaff lower than I expected seems to have done what I needed! I thought ordered a hipster gaff, but it appears I got something closer to a slingshot🤦‍♀️I was intending to return it if I didn’t like it after trying it on for a minute, but because of my hyperfixation, it’s been wedged up my ass for days, so I guess I have a really minimal gaff now!😅