Man, it is such a sad sight IRL when no one gets it. They’re confused asking what you’re talking about. You try explaining and they’re all acting like this is some in comprehensible nonsense that they can’t understand and isn’t funny.
The only thing worse is when only one person gets it and no one else does. Now you’ve got one person laughing saying “I see what you did there” and then having to explain to the others.
I agree with the first point, but “only one person getting it” is how friendships are often made.
Friendship arises out of mere Companionship when two or more of the companions discover that they have in common some insight or interest or even taste which the others do not share and which, till that moment, each believed to be his own unique treasure (or burden). The typical expression of opening Friendship would be something like, “What? You too? I thought I was the only one.” We can imagine that among those early hunters and warriors single individuals — one in a century? one in a thousand years? — saw what others did not; saw that the deer was beautiful as well as edible, that hunting was fun as well as necessary, dreamed that his gods might be not only powerful but holy. But as long as each of these percipient persons dies without finding a kindred soul, nothing (I suspect) will come of it; art or sport or spiritual religion will not be born. It is when two such persons discover one another, when, whether with immense difficulties and semi-articulate fumblings or with what would seem to us amazing and elliptical speed, they share their vision — it is then that Friendship is born. And instantly they stand together in an immense solitude. (C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves)
Neither the book, nor ol’ Clive himself, are without issues. His definitions can be a little questionable. But he had a hell of a way with words.
Man, it is such a sad sight IRL when no one gets it. They’re confused asking what you’re talking about. You try explaining and they’re all acting like this is some in comprehensible nonsense that they can’t understand and isn’t funny.
The only thing worse is when only one person gets it and no one else does. Now you’ve got one person laughing saying “I see what you did there” and then having to explain to the others.
I agree with the first point, but “only one person getting it” is how friendships are often made.
Neither the book, nor ol’ Clive himself, are without issues. His definitions can be a little questionable. But he had a hell of a way with words.