My partner is the same way lmao! Every single time she finds a guy attractive they turn out to be gay or trans. She’s hit like 13 total and her longest streak is like 7 that didn’t even know at the time they dated including me.
Literally her first words after seeing a picture of me the first time was basically “I’m not sure how to ask this without sounding rude but, what kind of queer are you? Because I actually find you kind of attractive and apparently that doesn’t happen with guys.”
What’s really funny is as far as I knew at the time I was just a bi cis guy. I’d had a gender crisis in high school but only knew about the full binary options and girl felt just as wrong as boy but for different reasons. (Figured out later that was probably mostly due to me being ace and not knowing it). So I just gave up and said guess I’m just a guy that hates traditional masculinity and she shattered my worldview with a handful of words “that sounds like nonbinary to me” and I suddenly had some googling to do.
Literally every guy I’ve ever found remotely attractive ends up not being a guy. Perhaps you’re just an egg detector?
My partner is the same way lmao! Every single time she finds a guy attractive they turn out to be gay or trans. She’s hit like 13 total and her longest streak is like 7 that didn’t even know at the time they dated including me.
Literally her first words after seeing a picture of me the first time was basically “I’m not sure how to ask this without sounding rude but, what kind of queer are you? Because I actually find you kind of attractive and apparently that doesn’t happen with guys.”
What’s really funny is as far as I knew at the time I was just a bi cis guy. I’d had a gender crisis in high school but only knew about the full binary options and girl felt just as wrong as boy but for different reasons. (Figured out later that was probably mostly due to me being ace and not knowing it). So I just gave up and said guess I’m just a guy that hates traditional masculinity and she shattered my worldview with a handful of words “that sounds like nonbinary to me” and I suddenly had some googling to do.