• romanticremedy@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 days ago

    So her ratio is like 700:1. I agree

    Although I’m pansexual, it’s very rare to see attractive men IRL while I see hot or cute women pretty often

    🤷‍♀️

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      Well, I personally believe we simply use different ways of making us look hot and that they are harder to communicate.

      For example, we often get judged by how useful/handy we are. Emotional intelligence doesn’t show on your clothes; etc.

      This a simple case of judging men by the standards of women, when they normally dont really care about them.

      • pet the cat, walk the dog@lemmy.world
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        we often get judged by how useful/handy we are

        After all, a toolbelt is a popular accessory in male striptease. Apparently an attractive characteristic in men is having a stable job.