ah yes you want a dog
I’ve met several women like this. They’re selfish, manipulative, hypocritical, and they LIE. Being involved with them to any extent is exhausting.
Never got one pregnant. A friend of mine married a ho like this after she baby trapped him. He wanted her to get a job so she called the police and said he hit her and touched their kid. He’s in prison now.
Don’t put your dick in crazy.
“Those are the eyes of someone who’d poke holes in a condom just to extend the relationship”
She likes to be chased, but doesn’t like to be caught. Or at least that’s what she wants in that point in her life. Move on, maybe you’ll bump into her down the road when she’s ready or maybe not.
Whatever you do, don’t stick around and play the games if you want something more serious. You’ll just end up either getting hurt or even worse. Either you grow your feelings for her when she doesn’t. This isn’t fun. Or, you’ll get her to be with you when she doesn’t want to be tied down. This can cause her to either resent you or if she’s for the streets, to cheat on you. Either way it’s not a fun time for anyone.
I’ve learned this lesson the hard way a couple times. My problem is the only women who like me either have a bf, have a “daddy”, or are the above example and like being chased, often 2 or 3 of those points. It gets very frustrating idk what is about me that attracts that type of lady.
I’m all for any person practising whatever relationship style they want. What im against is using people to fulfill your needs/wants. Have fun, meet people, enjoy experiences, but please dont make people your experiments. You may enjoy “the chase”, but the long term effects on those individuals may have further impacts.
I won’t fully agree with all the other comments that OP is not a nice person for doing this. We all have our motivations, methods, and reasoning. That being said, considering the fact that other humans have feelings and desires helps to mitigate that main character syndrome.
I think it boils down to communication. If both parties understand the expectations in the relationship, then it is fine, and thats what this meme implies as well. However one party leading the other on, maybe playing the bf/gf role without wanting the commitment while the other wants full commitment is disingenuous imo.
It’s like trying to gently explain to your dealer that you don’t want to hear his mixtape.
More like trying to tell him that you’ll listen to his mixtape as long as he provides drugs for free
It’s called a slave worshiping a mistress I think.
Yeah probably, that sounds about right, its certainly not something ive whiled away the twilight hours researching.
Quality shit post with dingleberries based on the reactions in the comments 🍿
Make that a Kenyan girl and you have my ex.
Miss me with that bullshit. Christ that relationship damaged me.
Ew. Relationships are two-way.
not always
this isn’t about relationships tho. it’s about having fun without commitment, which can also be 2-way. for example, my fling and i are keeping each other entertained without the expectation of anything serious.
“I like the idea of it, not the truth. the weakness. we have no future.”
Incel meme
It probably wasn’t intended to be, but a lot of the comments are from incels. Like that super real story about the guy’s friend who went to jail supposedly with no evidence against him.
What is it about meme communities that always attract misogyny?
what’s funny is that the source of this meme is a women centric page: https://www.instagram.com/p/Daokk2EjGBK/
some people will just always find a way to twist things and turn it misogynistic.
Makes sense to me, the tone is obviously pretty flippant and silly, but of course it’s going to be met with a lot of projection and “this woman ruined my life!!!”
that’s literally what i said as well. the only way you could read this as a “women bad” meme is if you have certain negative preconceptions about women / projection.
I think you nailed it tbh
the concept of a female perspective meme about libertinage being an incel meme…
the only angle i see in which it could be seen that way is if you think all women are puritanical prudes, which is misogynistic. ironic.
nah they got a point, thats the typa post id expect to see on 4chan right before they invent a new slur that no one will ever use
nah, relegating a woman’s expression of libertinage, vanity, or playful detachment to the realm of “inceldom” is deeply puritanical. it suggests that women aren’t allowed to be chaotic, selfish, or purely driven by the ego-boost of the chase. it assumes women must only want wholesome, committed love & be passive, relationship-seeking partners
being selfish and ego-boost driven is kinda bad no matter the gender
I will be honest, I’m somewhat proud of my proficiency level in English, especially considering I learned russian and German in school.
But your comment confuses me, cause I don’t understand half of it.
same here, had to read 3 times and rely on context. it does seem like they are using complex language just for the sake of using complex language
Don’t worry about it. Your English is probably fine.
I’m high and also kinda struggled to understand it
I think this is the first time I’ve seen the word “libertinage”
Change your perspective and imagine the meme was made by a (male) incel and you’ll get what they were getting at.
i’m imagining it. the content doesn’t change, so the meaning of the meme doesn’t change (fun without commitment). the only thing that could cause someone to label it as “incel” is, ironically, the reader’s own biases about women.
my points still stand.
Guy that’s mad because he’s been flirting with a woman and wants to get with her but she explains to him that she doesn’t wanna be with him but just wants him to want her.
It’s not how I read it initially, but hear me out…
Wants to get in a relationship but can’t? Check. Blames the woman for it? Check
Incel’s perspective checks out, imo.
again, this “interpretation” only works if the reader already has certain biases about women - specifically that women owe men a monogamous, serious, long term relationship, and wanting something casual, fun, noncommittal makes them “bad” somehow. which is the real misogynistic perspective.
and the meme doesn’t blame the woman in any way at all. the woman just doesn’t want a relationship & wants some fun without commitment. that’s it. anything else is just the reader projecting their own biases.
I agree, mostly, as that’s how I read it as well. But I also think that it’s easier to misunderstand that you’re making it out to be. Because there’s context from your previous posts which isn’t explained in this meme. There’s just the mention of fling in the title but the actual meme only says “I wanna be single but I want you to be obsessed with me”. And a person in a non monogamous relationship wouldn’t refer to themselves as “single”, for example, which leads to more confusion, I think
So like a guy who is just in it for the sex?
Yeah, the person portrayed would still be the problem.
