started a new job recently and im boymoding at work atm. i was expecting it to be cold because most offices ive been in are really cold, but its actually pretty warm. this is a problem because my boobs are getting big enough to be visible under most shirts so ive been wearing a tight bralet, a tshirt, and a hoodie but its too hot so im sitting here sweating wishing i could take off this hoodie but not wanting my coworkers to notice my boobs 😐

anybody have some advice on how to stay cool? im worried im just doomed to suffer or come out at work.

  • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@reddthat.com
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    I don’t wear obviously feminine clothes and most of my shirts are loose fitting. Doesn’t matter if I wear a tight shirt, my bra is visible, etc though: no one has said anything at work except a chaser over a year ago.

    My boobs aren’t exactly hidden; my mom asked me what I tell people when they ask because she thought it was obvious and her eyes have seen better days.

    I’m not good at shaving consistently tho and there’s still a beard shadow even if I do. So we’ll see if laser changes that.

    Point being people are blind unless they’re looking for it.