It really depends a lot on context and situation, ideally it’s someone you already have at least SOME passing acquaintance with so they give you a chance

okay, so this won’t work with all the social media maga telling me to kill myself.

i’ve done all those things as in person i don’t like being confrontational. yeah, it makes people adore me and say im the sweetest. never changes them though.

a little observation. your comment history says you’re a cis man. i think that might be part of why it’s been more effective for you to change minds. what you say has more weight.