I have been banned from unpopularopinion for exposing person defending genocide and use of human shields by IDF.

One of the users in unpopularopinion thread was complaining about someone calling him a ā€œfascistā€

https://feddit.uk/comment/17531487

In response I did paste a screenshot of his comment claiming IDF are not using human shields, it is Hamas who do that:

https://feddit.uk/comment/17529782

… And the mod of unpopularopinion banned me. I can only guess he is a another genocide apologist.

  • Lvxferre [he/him]@mander.xyz
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    BPR.

    You did the right thing by calling out OpinionHaver’s hypocrisy. And you did it the right way - exposing why they were called a fascist, in a thread they do Reddit style ā€œI dun unrrurstandā€ sealioning and ā€œackshyuallyā€ red herrings over and over to defend ethnic cleansing. If you only posted that and walked away, I’d be saying ā€œPTBā€.

    However that is not just what you did. You were consistently aggressive in that thread, and your mod history shows entries like ā€œuncivilā€, ā€œDerailingā€, ā€œcivilityā€, ā€œRude/toxicā€, ā€œhistory of netiquette violationsā€, ā€œconsistent history of toxic behaviorā€ across multiple instances. So even if the target was justified, you’re still a problem user, and if a mod lets this sort of hostile user (like you) go rogue in a comm, the comm becomes a shitfest.

    Plus you’re a single ā€œI can only guessā€ away from witch hunting = calling the mod ā€œgenocide apologistā€ on weak grounds (removals from a single thread). If you want to accuse someone, do it like you did towards OpinionHaver.

    You, sunzu2 and OpinionHaver were derailing the thread. The mod should’ve either nuked the whole comment chain or left it alone; by selectively deleting you+sunzu2’s comments but not OpinionHaver’s, the mod is arbitrarily giving them a political voice in an allegedly ā€œno politicsā€ comm, but not you or sunzu2.

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        People enabling fuckheads are obviously bad, but should not be assumed to be themselves fuckheads. ā€œA is shitā€ and ā€œB is shitā€ does not mean ā€œA is Bā€.

        This is important, because otherwise we end not blaming the enablers properly - they aren’t like the thief who steals your junk, they’re more like the braindead muppet who keeps the door open.

        EDIT: …nevermind, I retract my point. We’re talking about LW; Zionist apologia goes rampant there. Even if OP themself didn’t bring this up, it’s common knowledge already.

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            Did you see the edit? Now, here’s your answer: no, it is not gibberish. I’ll explain the reasoning.

            If we stick to that thread alone, there are at least two possible explanations for why the mod acted that way:

            1. the mod simply didn’t see the page OP linked. They saw one user behaving poorly, another being superficially polite, and banned the one behaving poorly (the OP), without noticing the other was defending the IDF. or
            2. the mod saw the linked page, deemed it OK, banned OP because he’s defending the Palestinians, and used their behaviour as excuse.

            There are more, but let’s stick to those two. Both enable someone who’s doing genocide apology. In both, the mod is being an enabler. But only #2 counts as condoning that genocide apology. #1 is simply being damn sloppy.

            However, based on the mod actions in a single thread, we have no grounds to know if it’s #1 or #2. And we shouldn’t assume. You don’t accuse people based on assumptions.

            Here’s where the edit comes in. What I said above doesn’t apply because it’s common knowledge that the LW admins+mods do jack shit against Zionist apologia. That’s why I retracted my point - because it isn’t how the mod acted in that thread, it’s a consistent behaviour across multiple threads.

            Is this clear now? TL;DR: I was saying ā€œOP, bring up more evidence before you accuse someoneā€, then ā€œnevermind, the evidence is public knowledgeā€.

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              the mod simply didn’t see the page OP linked

              I did paste verbatim screenshot and mod was well aware about the content - defending IDF using human shields cannot be mistaken with anything else.

              So yes, we have grounds - he was well aware.

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      OpinionHaver was making claims that did not pass basic scanning of his comment history.

      I linked up his comment for context. I don’t think that’s derailing. That’s how good discourse happens. In fact, it is my opinion, that these ā€œrulesā€ are generally used to censor content, which is what happened here at least in my opinion.

      But sure, if entire comment thread got nuke, it would be harder for me to make these claims.

      But week in, week out around here we see these patterns of censorship around topics that are sensitive to the regime but we still pretend as if these ā€œmodsā€ are ā€œmoddingā€ and not censoring.

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        By far your comment is the least problematic of the bunch, and it’s only a problem because it’s in the middle of that ruckus - it is further derailing the discussion, even if not the one starting it.

        But sure, if entire comment thread got nuke, it would be harder for me to make these claims.

        Personally I’d keep it on, because I agree with you. For me it’s a matter of transparency - if you remove stuff here and there suddenly nobody knows who said what. But I still see grounds for nuking the whole comment chain (including the top comment), to avoid a flamewar and make sure the rules are enforced.

        But week in, week out around here we see these patterns of censorship around topics that are sensitive to the regime but we still pretend as if these ā€œmodsā€ are ā€œmoddingā€ and not censoring.

        Sadly you’re right.

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      You were consistently aggressive in that thread

      No. I mostly only posted this genocide denier his own words. Calling someone defending use of human shields a ā€œgenocide apologistā€ is factual, not aggressive.

      your mod history shows entries like ā€œuncivilā€, ā€œDerailingā€, ā€œcivilityā€, ā€œRude/toxicā€, ā€œhistory of netiquette violationsā€, ā€œconsistent history of toxic behaviorā€ across multiple instances.

      Firstly, this is irrelevant. Secondly when you get to the details, most of these comments are made by infamous feddit.org mods - who very recently came out of the closet and started banning reasonable criticism of Israel. Fill your gaps.

      So even if the target was justified, you’re still a problem user,

      I am who I am. I say what I think.

      Plus you’re a single ā€œI can only guessā€ away from witch hunting = calling the mod ā€œgenocide apologistā€ on weak grounds

      See my other comment. I did paste screenshot of his disgusting defence of IDF, verbatim. This triggered the mod who called it ā€œsmearā€ and he doubled down on calling it ā€œsmearā€ again in this very thread. If calling a guy like this a ā€œgenocide apologistā€ is a smear for the mod, that’s very telling about mod own views.

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        No. I mostly only posted this genocide denier his own words. Calling someone defending use of human shields a ā€œgenocide apologistā€ is factual, not aggressive.

        You’re omitting the part where you call a third party ā€œan idiotā€, and that your answers to the genocide denier were both passive aggressive as fuck. (Source, modlog.. For the pass-aggro Ctrl+F ā€œsweetieā€)

        It’s arguable if your aggressiveness in this specific case was justified. But by claiming that you weren’t being aggressive you are simply lying. And calling people stupid by proxy - do you expect them to buy your lie?

        Firstly, this [your mod history entries] is irrelevant.

        No, it is not. It shows that you’ll likely to behave like an arse in any community that allows it. Mods can and should use a user’s history to know how to handle them, once they violate the rules of a community.

        Secondly when you get to the details, most of these comments are made by infamous feddit.org mods - who very recently came out of the closet and started banning reasonable criticism of Israel. Fill your gaps.

        Modlog, again:

        1. Yes, because people driving to work deserve to have their eyes stabbed šŸ™„ What kind of fucking moron creates stuff like this one?
        2. > Yeah, I’m all for that. And it’s easy. Just revoke all licences. https://lemmy.world/c/opisafuckingidiot
        3. I hope you’re a fucking miner (sic - minor)
        4. Your parents had ā€œsemen cause autismā€ energy
        5. Or perhaps you are simply not using your brain?
        6. Just 20%? I didn’t know 80% of USians were retarded, I always thought it was around 60% max.
        7. Go and fuck yourself.
        8. In this case enjoy your piss with fart bubbles. I am pretty sure you will be fine as long as it says ā€œchampagneā€ on the bottle.

        None of those involves either the feddit.org mods or the Zionist Reich, but in all of those you’re being aggressive towards other users. I could post another thousand examples, that modlog is full of that.

        You are lying yet again.

        I am who I am.

        You are a fucking arsehole, and someone without the dignity to admit they’re a fucking arsehole.

        I say what I think.

        The problem is how you say it. You’re a fucking arsehole, clearly unable to voice your views without sounding like a pissy manchild. And also a liar based on the comment I’m replying to.

        Please do a favour for everyone and go back to Reddit, you’ll be in more suitable company there.

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          You’re omitting the part where you call a third party "an idiot

          Again, this is irrelevant. Not part of the exchange I have been banned for and it was a reply to him calling me an" embarrassment". For the context, it was a guy defending genocide denier. He also posted in this thread - I suggest you have a look.

          your answers to the genocide denier were both passive aggressive as fuck.

          Firstly I disagree with that. Secondly this is again irrelevant - being ā€œpassive aggressiveā€ is not a bannable offence.

          But by claiming that you weren’t being aggressive you are simply lying.

          I completely disagree with that. None of my comments were aggressive.

          No, it is not. It shows that you’ll likely to behave like an arse in any community that allows it.

          It is completely and utterly irrelevant. You may be an angel in one community and the devil in another. If there was a Israel/IDF supporting community the guy I was responding to would be an angel.

          None of those involves either the feddit.org mods or the Zionist Reich, but in all of those you’re being aggressive towards other users

          Nope. Now click each of them for a context. I stand behind every single one of them.

          You are lying yet again.

          Stop accusing me of lying.

          You are a fucking arsehole, and someone without the dignity to admit they’re a fucking arsehole. Please do a favour for everyone and go back to Reddit

          Now, my answer to this should be ā€œgo and fuck yourselfā€. But since you put your comments so nicely I am going to pat you on your head and just say ā€œyes, sweetieā€ šŸ˜‚

          If anyone is aggressive here, including name calling it is you. Now, disengage.

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      I don’t see the hypocrisy you’re accusing me of here, but I’m more than happy to clear up any potential confusion. I’ve interacted with you here before, and I know that - unlike OP - you’re capable of debating in good faith. So if you genuinely see any logical errors in my reasoning or behavior that you think are worth criticizing, I’m open to hearing it.

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        Geneva:

        to render […] military forces immune from military operations

        With respect to non-international armed conflicts, Additional Protocol II does not explicitly mention the use of human shields, but such practice would be prohibited by the requirement that "the civilian population and individual civilians shall enjoy general protection against the dangers arising from military operationsā€.

        The source you are discussing:

        […] to make sure they were clear of bombs and gunmen

        It is a human shield walking into a house in case there are bombs or gunmen in the house, in order to render the military forces outside immune from military operations.

        They either force the bombs to explode or gunmen in the house to open fire on the civilian, thereby exposing the gunmen to counter-fire with minimized risk to the military personnel, or they force gunmen to avoid opening fire at all.

        Just because you dress the civilian in military fatigues does not change this. They are human shields.

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          My understanding is that the correct interpretation of that is you’re not allowed to, for example, strike military targets with missiles if there are civilians around. If one then doesn’t fight fair, they can abuse this by intentionally placing military infrastructure near civilian buildings - even schools and hospitals - knowing that this will, at least to some extent, deter the enemy from striking. In other words, using civilians as human shields.

          In my view, what’s being described here is a violation of Part 4, Article 147: ā€œcompelling a protected person to serve in the forces of a hostile Powerā€ - which, let’s not forget, is equally evil and indefensible.

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            Rendering immune from military operations also involves posing civilians as military personnel for the purpose of distracting enemy combatants and drawing their fire. Think the Joker’s plan from the Dark Knight - if you put fake guns and fake uniforms on civilians for the purpose of having the enemy attack them instead of the real target that is a human shield.

            They are not serving. That is conscription, and would involve arming the personnel or otherwise having them perform the expected duties of military personnel. They are being placed unarmed intentionally in the line of fire in a way that military personnel would never be used, so they are not being forced to serve.

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              They are not serving.

              Fair point - can’t really argue with that. I guess it counts then. I was wrong.

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        Refer to this discussion FelixCress linked.

        Up to your top comment (ā€œI’m not sure ā€œhuman shieldā€ is the correct term here.ā€ […]), you could say that you were just arguing semantics. However, your replies to leftytighty and Keeponstalin show otherwise:

        • even after being shown (by Keeponstalin) that the definition of human shield fits the content of the article to a T, you kept arguing that it does not apply
        • insistent shift of the focus on Hamas’ actions
        • leftytighty’s point in ā€œtry reading news about the IDFā€ is clear (implying usage of human shields is the common modus operandi of the IDF, so the article exemplifying it is not surprising). Your answer to that was basically a Reddit style sealion.

        What you said is, effectively, a defence of the IDF, by denying that that specific event counts as a specific war crime, and insistent (~twice) shift of the focus to Hamas’ actions. Even if you say ā€œI’m not defending IDFā€. It does give people good grounds to call you a fascist, so your comment in the other thread is hypocrisy.

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          It’s still unclear to me where I was being hypocritical. Disagreeing on the definition of a term isn’t hypocrisy, and I would still argue that the example used in the article - of sending Palestinian non-combatants to clear out buildings - doesn’t fit the definition of a human shield under the Geneva Conventions, which is: ā€œutilizing the presence of a civilian or other protected person to render certain points, areas or military forces immune from military operations.ā€ Rather, it more accurately fits the definition found in Part 4, Article 147: ā€œcompelling a protected person to serve in the forces of a hostile Power.ā€

          As for the optics of criticizing Hamas but not the IDF - I understand how someone might draw false conclusions about my underlying motives. But to suggest that I’d be fine with the IDF doing something I would criticize Hamas for - let alone the accusations of fascism - is simply untrue. Of course I condemn all mistreatment of civilians, regardless of who’s responsible. That should go without saying. When I said that I’m not defending the IDF I meant that I’m not defending their use of human shields or otherwise mistreating civilians. Not that I’m not defending their broader goal in the conflict. What I got (implicitly) called fascist for that Felix is refering to had nothing to do with the Israeli-Palestine conflict. That happened in this thread.

          If someone holds mistaken beliefs about me, that’s one thing - but once they start publicly spreading falsehoods, that’s where I draw the line.

          What Felix says in the opening post here is either a blatant lie or a total misunderstanding.

          I have been banned from unpopularopinion for exposing person defending genocide and use of human shields by IDF.

          At no point have I defended or advocated for genocide, or for the use of human shields - nor is that the reason they got banned for.

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            You do realise you’re using here the exact same sealion as you did in that thread, right? As in: ā€œI don’t understandā€ followed by a gross distortion of what someone else said.

            where I was being hypocritical. Disagreeing on the definition of a term isn’t hypocrisy

            As already explained, the issue is not just disagreeing on the definition.

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              You do realise…

              I don’t. I’m genuinely trying but I don’t.

              What gross distortion? What exactly is the issue, then? It’s not hypocrisy or sealioning Felix was accusing me of. I honestly struggle to make sense of what I’m even being accused of here. Everyone just seems to be assuming bad faith, while I’m simply trying to figure out what I did wrong this time.

              If it’s about me being annoying, pedantic, or whatever - fine, I don’t disagree. But my issue is with claims about me or my beliefs that just aren’t true. And if they are true, I’m sincerely hoping someone would point them out to me.

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                You do realise you’re using here the exact same sealion as you did in that thread, right?

                I don’t. I’m genuinely trying but I don’t.

                Given that you claim to not defend the IDF, and I don’t know your ā€œmotivationsā€ or ā€œintentionsā€ or whatever¹, I’ll treat you as genuinely confused.

                What's "sealioning", in a nutshell.

                Sealioning is a debate tactic where someone keeps engaging in a debate through things like this:

                • Questions / allegations on matters that are contextually obvious, while showing to expect others to rebuke them. Often through claims of ignorance.
                • Questions / allegations that are completely irrelevant to the topic, but being treated as if they were. Whataboutisms, argumenta ad nauseam, etc.
                • Clearly distorting what others say.
                • Misleading / loaded questions, implicit assumptions, straw men… basically distorting what others say.
                • Insistently claiming that they’re just trying to engage in a meaningful debate, or ā€œjust questioningā€ (JAQing off), etc.
                • etc.

                Ultimately, a sea lion makes the other side shut up or snap out - not through valid argumentation, but by shredding their patience. In both cases the sea lion can claim a victory.

                Now, look at your comments in the linked discussion - because they provide context to this one. And let us pretend that the IDF was indeed committing another war crime than using human shields, i.e. that your ā€œackshyuallyā€ was indeed correct². Here’s what you see:

                • The topic is about the IDF using human shields. The point of such a topic is to spread awareness of the atrocities committed by the IDF.
                • Your top comment is an ā€œackshyuallyā€ about the exact definition of human shield (weak relevance, given the point of the topic).
                • In the same comment you say ā€œwhich has been Hamas’ strategy from the beginningā€ - shifting the focus from what the IDF is doing to what Hamas does. (whataboutism).
                • Keeponstalin provides you a definition of the usage of human shields, plus multiple links that show that the usage of human shields is a common IDF strategy.
                • Instead of addressing that definition, you highlight your alleged intentions (ā€œI’m simply questioningā€¦ā€), and claim that saying the IDF uses human shields ā€œpaints a somewhat dishonest picture of the actual realityā€. Like, there’s no other way to interpret this excerpt except as you defending the IDF.

                The only reasonable way to explain your behaviour there is sealioning: you shift the focus into semantics and Hamas, while claiming that you’re just asking questions, and not addressing what others said…

                And before you say ā€œbut my intentionsā€ - remember, the only person who knows what’s inside your head is yourself¹.

                Now look at this thread. I said that you’re still sealioning because:

                • claim of ignorance: ā€œIt’s still unclear to meā€
                • distortion of what I said: ā€œDisagreeing on the definition of a term isn’t hypocrisyā€. My exact words were ā€œIt [your defence of the IDF] does give people good grounds to call you a fascist, so your comment in the other thread is hypocrisy.ā€ So it’s clearly not about the disagreement of the definition, I called it hypocrisy because you claim surprise of being called a fascist³.

                You were sealioning back then, claim ignorance, distort what someone else says…

                It’s not hypocrisy or sealioning Felix was accusing me of.

                I said those things. FelixCress is claiming that you’re a fascist.

                If it’s about me being annoying, pedantic, or whatever - fine, I don’t disagree. But my issue is with claims about me or my beliefs that just aren’t true. And if they are true, I’m sincerely hoping someone would point them out to me.

                It is not about being pedantic or annoying. It’s about how your words are interpreted.

                And, if you’re genuinely not sealioning, a few tips on how to avoid being labelled as one here:

                • Mind the context. Always mind the context. It dictates how your words are interpreted. Specially for more politicised topics, like the ongoing conflicts. A neutral statement (like ā€œit doesn’t fit the definitionā€) will convey different things based on the post, and those things will not be neutral.
                • I hate doing this but don’t simply say epistemic statements (X is true / X is false) in a heavily politicised topic without a moral statement. Otherwise people will see a moral statement on it. Not just witch hunters but every bloody body.
                • If you’re unsure on what someone else said, don’t say stuff like ā€œI don’t understandā€, ā€œI’m confusedā€, ā€œI’m not sureā€. Instead, ask specific questions on what they mean. (Reason: most Lemmy users are former Reddit users, and in Reddit this crap is a red flag for sealioning. And ooooh boy sealioning in Reddit is bread and butter.)
                • If there are multiple possible interpretations to what someone else said, and you can’t handle all of them, always pick the most reasonable one.

                NOTES:

                1. Nobody knows what’s inside someone else’s head, nor we [people in general] should pretend we do.
                2. It is not correct, but for the sake of this discussion, the distinction between the IDF committing one or another specific war crime doesn’t matter.
                3. Even if you are not a fascist you most likely know where that claim comes from. That’s hypocrisy.
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                  Ackshyually

                  Fair enough. I’ve been a smart-ass my whole life, so I’m not going to argue against that.

                  Whataboutism

                  No issues with that either. That doesn’t exactly refute my point, however.

                  Sealioning

                  This I don’t agree with, and your definition of it seems somewhat strange - especially the part about distorting what others say, which I don’t admit to either.

                  Sealioning is a type of trolling or harassment that consists of pursuing people with relentless requests for evidence, often tangential or previously addressed, while maintaining a pretense of civility and sincerity (ā€œI’m just trying to have a debateā€), and feigning ignorance of the subject matter. - Wikipedia

                  Saying ā€œI don’t understandā€ isn’t sealioning if I genuinely don’t understand. If someone doesn’t like what I’m saying, I don’t engage with vague accusations - I ask them to be more specific so I can respond to what they’re actually saying, not what I imagine they’re saying.

                  Instead of addressing that definition, you highlight your alleged intentions (ā€œI’m simply questioningā€¦ā€), and claim that saying the IDF uses human shields ā€œpaints a somewhat dishonest picture of the actual realityā€. Like, there’s no other way to interpret this excerpt except as you defending the IDF.

                  I’ve only claimed that ā€œhuman shieldā€ doesn’t fit the definition in this specific example, but when people provided examples of other cases, I didn’t claim they weren’t true. I condemn the IDF’s use of human shields just as harshly as I do when Hamas uses them.

                  To me, it seems hypocritical when people criticize one side for something the other side is demonstrably worse at - but I’ll grant you that, in this specific case, I’m assuming bad faith when I really can’t know anyone’s intentions or underlying motives any more than they can know mine.

                  Also, saying that I ā€œdefend the IDFā€ is a pretty vague claim. Yes, there are more things I might defend the IDF for than Hamas - but that doesn’t mean I blanket-approve everything they do. I don’t defend the use of human shields, and I don’t defend genocide. You may argue that I’m ā€œeffectivelyā€ doing so, but since that’s not my intention, I don’t accept that accusation. I could just as easily flip that around and say people here are defending Hamas - which would equally misrepresent their views in most cases.

                  Now, as you’ve probably noticed, I tend to be a bit provocative in the way I comment - that’s intentional. Like trolls, I am baiting for a reaction. The difference is that: 1. I actually believe what I’m saying. 2. I don’t act in bad faith (or at least not with bad intentions). 3. Getting a reaction isn’t my end goal - I use it as a tactic to get people to engage with me. I also intentionally don’t tend to caveat my points because othewise my every response would just be a list of what I’m not meaning/saying.

                  I still stand firm that Felix has made multiple false accusations against me and has consistently behaved in extremely bad faith from the very beginning. It’s pretty clear to me that this all started when he asked for examples of extremism on Lemmy, and one of the multiple examples I provided was of someone advocating for the abolition of Israel - something he clearly had a strong emotional reaction to. That reaction seemed to prompt him to dig through my post history, looking for anything to support the assumptions he had already made about me.

                  At no point did it feel like it was about the actual content of my claims - it was a personal smear campaign, not an argument. I think that compairing the lenght of our moderation histories is quite revealing.

                  Finally, as a side note - I hate responding to multiple points like this in one post, but I don’t see any other way to address everything you brought up. If you still want to continue the conversation, I’d much rather focus on one or two specific claims you feel most strongly about. But if not, I just want to thank you for taking the time to write a thoughtful response - and above all, for your civility. Social media needs more people like you.

                  • Lvxferre [he/him]@mander.xyz
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                    If you still want to continue the conversation, I’d much rather focus on one or two specific claims you feel most strongly about.

                    Then I’ll focus specifically on sealioning. This instance is heavily politicised (and that’s good), so plenty people here can discuss IDF, Hamas, the ongoing Nakba etc. better than I do.

                    This [sealioning] I don’t agree with, and your definition of it seems somewhat strange - especially the part about distorting what others say

                    Those bullet points are just examples of sea lion behaviour. The common elements between all of them is that 1) they aren’t valid argumentation, and 2) they force the ā€œsealionedā€ to provide pointless explanations, until they lose their patience; and distorting what others say is a way to do it.

                    which I don’t admit to either.

                    You might have done it either ā€œaccidentallyā€ or ā€œon purposeā€, but your claim does distort what I said. Because, again, it is not about disagreeing on definitions; it’s that it was obvious why people were calling you fascist, even if your comment shows bewilderment about it.

                    Sealioning is a type of trolling or harassment that consists of pursuing people with relentless requests for evidence, often tangential or previously addressed, while maintaining a pretense of civility and sincerity (ā€œI’m just trying to have a debateā€), and feigning ignorance of the subject matter. - Wikipedia

                    Wikipedia itself lists multiple definitions. The core is the same, and shared with the definition I’ve provided.

                    Saying ā€œI don’t understandā€ isn’t sealioning if I genuinely don’t understand.

                    It’s a red flag, you know? On itself it might not be enough to say ā€œthis is a sealion with 100% chanceā€ but, together with other red flags, you can pretty much spot a sealion with damn good accuracy.