Insert horrified looks when I tell me friends some “funny stories” from my childhood. :D

  • PugJesus@lemmy.worldBanned from community
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    2 years ago

    “Pug, you’re an incredibly smart kid, but you’re lazy.”

    Me, unable to remember homework, but acing every test and going above-and-beyond on any project with freeform requirements, leading to solid Bs and Cs despite half my assignments being a flat 0 for not being turned in: “Yeah.”

    … kind of wish someone looked a little deeper into the issue at the time.

    • MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net
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      2 years ago

      Growing up neurodivergent in the 80s and not being disruptive enough to demand said deeper look may lead to:

      • Depression
      • Anxiety
      • Internalization of negative self-worth
      • Avoidance of formal higher education
      • Early burnout
      • Lifelong vague dissatisfaction
      • Disillusionment with the world and its systems
      • Being terminally online searching frantically for the next dopamine hit
  • breadsmasher@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    And now these horribly abused children are adults with their own children.

    Thankfully a lot of them are learning to break the cycle of parental mental abuse