Gentle nerd freak of the pacific northwest. All nation states are vermin.

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  • The apathy of many us citizens to the idea that their government could possibly matter to them is a direct result of a massive legal, and influence campaign by far right elites, their representatives in government and their allies overseas. A functional state is supposed to have institutions to combat that.

    The effectiveness of the current far right coup is a failure of our institutions, and the low participation of many in the US is a symptom of that failure, not a cause.





  • Hegar@fedia.iotoPolitical Memes@lemmy.worldHappy Easter
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    The world has never trusted the US. Because of all that stuff we do to it.

    Europe trusted the US, from around the mid 40s until the bush regime. That’s the so called “american century”, from the US entering ww2 until “WMDs in iraq” - about 60 years.



  • Looks great! Those potatoes look amazing as does the hollandaise. Have you tried making hollandaise with a little dill?

    There’s one brunch place here where the hollandaise is just miles better than anything i’d ever had, all others now seem bland in comparison. It was so good i forgot that hollandaise doesn’t normally have dill and started whinging about why places keep forgetting to add dill.




  • Again, that is all pretty much spot on our situation. We have elaborate heat-management rituals involving the cat, a fan, and multiple layers of blankets being tucked/shucked as needed. She is also not yet into the hot flashes.

    I’ve long presumed this is one of those PCOS-is-ridiculously-understudied issues.

    And yes, thank you! We’re both often surprised at our ability to come to mutually supportive solutions - just like real grownups! 😂




  • My partner is like this too. Seperate sheets and blankets. She puts up with a bit of my cuddle-lust, but you can tell she doesn’t like it. She has mentioned a pillow wall. But she finds sleeping seperately to be just devestating, and even during our worst arguments she wants me in the same bed.


  • Hegar@fedia.iotoCoupleMemes@sh.itjust.worksAs couples
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    Ehhh, not really. We also have associations with past events and emotions are a bit culturally mediated, but the neurotransmitters are doing the heavy lifting.

    Our emotions are just a chemical system. The subjective experience feels more complicated than just “now i have oxytocin”, but lots of things feel different than they really are.