Gentle nerd freak of the pacific northwest. All nation states are vermin.

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Cake day: June 26th, 2024

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  • The apathy of many us citizens to the idea that their government could possibly matter to them is a direct result of a massive legal, and influence campaign by far right elites, their representatives in government and their allies overseas. A functional state is supposed to have institutions to combat that.

    The effectiveness of the current far right coup is a failure of our institutions, and the low participation of many in the US is a symptom of that failure, not a cause.







  • Looks great! Those potatoes look amazing as does the hollandaise. Have you tried making hollandaise with a little dill?

    There’s one brunch place here where the hollandaise is just miles better than anything i’d ever had, all others now seem bland in comparison. It was so good i forgot that hollandaise doesn’t normally have dill and started whinging about why places keep forgetting to add dill.




  • Again, that is all pretty much spot on our situation. We have elaborate heat-management rituals involving the cat, a fan, and multiple layers of blankets being tucked/shucked as needed. She is also not yet into the hot flashes.

    I’ve long presumed this is one of those PCOS-is-ridiculously-understudied issues.

    And yes, thank you! We’re both often surprised at our ability to come to mutually supportive solutions - just like real grownups! 😂




  • My partner is like this too. Seperate sheets and blankets. She puts up with a bit of my cuddle-lust, but you can tell she doesn’t like it. She has mentioned a pillow wall. But she finds sleeping seperately to be just devestating, and even during our worst arguments she wants me in the same bed.


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    2 days ago

    Ehhh, not really. We also have associations with past events and emotions are a bit culturally mediated, but the neurotransmitters are doing the heavy lifting.

    Our emotions are just a chemical system. The subjective experience feels more complicated than just “now i have oxytocin”, but lots of things feel different than they really are.