

My ex drugged and raped me and I’ve had people straight up tell me “well maybe you should have put out”
Like what the fuck is wrong with people. God forbid a woman have boundaries. I wasn’t ready for sex and my ex didn’t give a damn. Looking back, he was hella abusive and just had me charmed.
The whole thing was so traumatic that I repressed the memories for five years as a survival mechanism. Apparently some people think that I wouldn’t have CPTSD if I’d just push my own boundaries aside and let the dude fuck me. I was already doing that for the guy, but sex was a boundary I couldn’t push aside at that time…












Once on the highway a kid made a lil heart at me with his hands from a bus window and I flipped him off and he and his friends lost their minds. It was hilarious.