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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I’m sorry but I saw this coming when repayment was paused and then a ton of people said “I’m just never going to pay, what are they going to do?”

    Obviously they will garnish wages. It’s like saying the sky is blue. No shit Sherlock.

    Keep paying until you have a note in hand saying there is no debt (either until you’ve paid or the government has said the debt is 100% forgiven) . Just because one administration says we are working to take care of your debt means nothing. The next administration might reverse that. So keep paying until you have a legal document in hand saying the debt is forgiven/has fully been payed.








  • The popular belief is that prenuptial agreements are bad.

    Go talk to a marriage counselor they will tell you the exact opposite. A prenuptial agreement make sure that everybody is on the same page. It makes sure there’s no misunderstandings as to how a marriage should run. It also make sure there’s no misunderstandings of how a divorce should be handled.

    Hollywood would make you believe that a prenuptial agreement is wrote by one person it’s actually wrote by two. And technically it’s actually wrote by four. The two people getting married and each one of them have an attorney. So that’s four people that are getting this thing wrote.

    It protects you from unknown events in the future. For example, let’s say you and I get married no prenup. Few years later I have a traumatic brain injury and I get a personality change out of it. This can actually happen. Well now I’m a sociopathic asshole. Now it’s all me me me. If there’s been a prenuptial agreement, you are protected. I would’ve made sure that future you was protected from future me.

    It also clears up how things should be handled such as if one of us owns a house. Who gets the house is your name going to be on it? What happens to it during a divorce? Everybody has their own opinions on all this shit happen, but very few people will write it down.

    We’ll talk about how we think these things should be happening, but we won’t write them down and then years later we claim, but I didn’t really say that or I didn’t mean that.

    Here’s the problem. We all have a prenuptial agreement at the moment you get married. The state has wrote it. I can pretty much guarantee you you won’t like the one the state wrote. Write one yourself.

    It’s the same way with a will. The state has already wrote you a will I can pretty much guarantee you’re next of kin is going to hate that will.

    If you gotta buy a used car, you want everything in writing not just the other person‘s word at it. If you buy a new house you want it wrote down not just the sales person‘s word of what is or is not covered. So why would you have a verbal conversation with your significant other of how a marriage should be run and how divorce should be handled, but not write it down?

    In my opinion, you get married you get a prenup. Make sure everybody’s on the same page. If they refuse to write it down, Handle it the exact same way you would handle buying that house. They don’t want to write it down you run.

    How many people do you know of who got married then got divorced, and the judge absolutely screwed them over.? With a prenup, you are telling the judge how to handle the divorce. The judge isn’t telling you what happens. Again a prenuptial agreement is wrote by two people. Both people have equal say as to what is in it, both people are equally represented by attorneys. Therefore, nobody can claim one person had control over the other.