Just a guy wandering aimlessly through this world.

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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • I’m saying this so you understand that I’m not a good person.

    Not everyone is picture perfect, and they too make regrettable mistakes. I know I have plenty of proverbial skeletons in my closet.

    You are not alone in how you feel. If you were never taught emotional maturity, then of course it is very difficult to interact with other people on any level; especially when it comes to things like rejection, perceived or otherwise.

    There is no “trick” or magical incantation to fix any of this. It takes time and a lot of effort. You will stumble and fall quite often, but that’s okay. Just keep getting back up and dusting yourself off. Eventually you’ll find your groove.

    Motivation can be quite difficult too when you feel the way you do. Forgive yourself often for your “mistakes”. Start small, and work your way up with as many little wins as you can muster. Keep in mind, none of this is a race that you must win; go at your own pace and fuck everybody else’s progress. You do you.

    I sincerely wish you the best of luck in the coming years. No one should have to go through what you are dealing with. I don’t care how bad of a person you think you are; not even you deserve it.