

Definitely it’s gonna vary by person, by a lot of it is about approach.
It’s still always going to be better to ask someone if they want you to complete a specific task, rather than what you can do to help.
This also probably varies by culture as some people are not comfortable saying no to offers of help, even if they don’t want it.
Everyone is different, and everyone has different experiences, so definitely be mindful of all of these things in how you approach this.
That being said, many American men in particular seem to be guilty of this lack of thought, thinking they are be useful by offering help but not realizing that managing them is its own task. Or worse, and and not offering help at all, and defending it by saying things like “well you never asked for help”.











No, the requirements to run a locally hosted flagship llm is on the order of a Terabyte of vram, like Deepseek v4. The best models from openai and anthropic are likely similar. These are usually loaded into vram on one machine that can serve many users
But if you tried to distribute the compute, if it’s even possible, would take like a hundred high end gaming computers and process at a glacial pace. It just doesn’t make sense.
It makes more sense for an organization to purchase their own hardware and distribute resources somehow, like for a University, but consumer hardware won’t really cut it.
You could use smaller models, but their performance scales with size so they are much dumber than the flagship models.