For me, sex is basically indifferent. I don’t care for it, but in my past relationship, it was a typical hetero setup… until we both realized and accepted our orientations. I’m currently floating in the realm of bisexuality, but without any real drive, I have no care to persue anything. I’ve pondered even being demi, but again, i haven’t been outgoing, so…

I think I can relate to your partner.