Luckily my model of other people’s model of me has lost enough genuine character that it’s more of a trope so my model of someone else’s model of me has like 3 models that apply to everyone and that’s so reductive I ignore them.

Oh, stay away from semioticians, then.

Semiosis diagrams are like trypophobia bait memes but specifically for information scientists.

I vaguely remember from grad school that “copresence heuristics” were a workable solution, but I don’t remember the details.

Basically, the big circle is what you think of them, and the small circle is what you believe they think of you.