It seems incomprehensible to me how some people tolerate it.

  • AnchoriteMagus@sh.itjust.works
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    26 days ago

    There are people to whom sleeping in a completely silent room is equally incomprehensible.

    I have pretty hefty hearing damage. Am I supposed to turn everything off and listen to nothing but “EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE” all night?

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      26 days ago

      same, but it is really subtle for me, but that makes it all the more unbearable when it is completely silent, bcs it is noticable enough to make me focus on it and it just fucking sucks bcs i want my brain to just shut down.

      that’s why i just have music running while i sleep, and it reduced the time i needed to fall asleep by a lot.

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        26 days ago

        I have been able to use my tinnitus as a focus point during meditation.

        Letting it be a reminder to practice being mindful is a superpower.

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      26 days ago

      I don’t have hearing damage or tinnitus (yet, please universe do not add that to the list) and there is no possibility of sleep for me in a quiet room. It is pure torture. A fan is heaven, rain is fucking sublime, a ticking clock I literally can’t even consciously hear unless I focus super hard on it.

      • AnchoriteMagus@sh.itjust.works
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        26 days ago

        Mine is loud and debilitating enough that I’ve sought medical attention and have a partial disability rating. There’s no “leaning into it”.

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          26 days ago

          My condolences.

          I’d say my tinnitus is mild, my hearing is otherwise still sharp for my age.

          I treat my tinnitus how others might use a white noise machine.

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      26 days ago

      Everybody keeps saying tinnitus sounds like “eeeeee” and none of my tinnituses (I have three layers) do. The examples you can find online are also always wrong.

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      26 days ago

      How dare you try to trick me into believing anyone could not only tolerate the sound, but actually enjoy it.

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    26 days ago

    I grew up around them, so my brain tuned ticking clocks out. Certainly I’ve lost that ability since then but I haven’t encountered a bedroom with a ticking clock in a long time.

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        26 days ago

        The clock works as intended and ticks in predictable intervals. It’s much the same as rain whipping against a window or a old house groaning during storm.

        The faucet dripping means something is wrong and will annoy me to no end. It’s much the same as a buzzing fly or screaming/panicking children.

        In other words: you can’t really compare those two.

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          26 days ago

          Interesting.

          I can tolerate non repetitive sounds, like rain, or wind, or the house settling.

          Reliably consistent sounds do my head in.

          Clocks, dripping taps, fan clicks - all invented by the devil

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    26 days ago

    My grandparents had a large mechanical clock in their living room, where we would sleep on the floor when visiting as kids. The right “tick” would be nostalgic. I might go look for some ambient noise tracks with clock ticks…

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    26 days ago

    For me it comes down to repetition. Repetitive consistent sounds I can ignore. Random sounds though keep me up.

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    26 days ago

    It’s the rhythmic/repetitive pattern. It’s just another form of white noise.

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    Mine even rang it’s bells at every half-hour and hour. So 12 loud bell rings at midnight. In my bedroom. I slept well.

    Honestly I think it’s because I get used to the sound. If the ticking and ringing are always there, the brain just ignores them, even in sleep. For subjectively nice sounds (like those of a nice pendulum clock) at least.

    I don’t have it running anymore, the weights would eventually hit the piano.

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    26 days ago

    I’m trying to think of a time a noise was distrupting my sleep and only example I can think of is waves hitting the boat hull. It’s quite irregular sound which is why it bothers me. Music, talking, fan, road noise or such doesn’t effect me at all.

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    26 days ago

    I’m so ADD that I intently listen until I forget and get distracted by some other thought. I also can fall asleep fast after hitting the pillow so there isn’t much time to linger on it.

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    23 days ago

    I’m used to it. It reminds me of being at my grandmother’s house.

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    24 days ago

    My husband snores so I can help here, eventually you will tune anything out, with enough exhaustion.