Full title: “Shut the fk up!” Democrat storms out of event as voters voice criticism of anti-trans bill. “You can’t fking talk to me that way!” Rep. Eugene Vindman said before walking out without taking more questions.

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    Runs for politics, which serves the people.

    People call him out.

    Tells people to shut the fuck up.

    Yeah – this guy needs to go.

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    “I’m going to vote to help the vast majority of people the majority of the time,” Vindman told the crowd, according to the Advocate. “Is it going to help everybody? No.”

    Dang, this reminds me of what I was saying two years ago:

    If a minority group like Palestinians can be sacrificed for the sake of winning an election, then the same can and will be done for any minority group that becomes seen as an electoral liability. The only way for any minority, but especially one as small as trans people, to really achieve security is through solidarity, an alliance of the vulnerable that treats an offense against one as an offense against all. Right now, there might be cis gays watching the democrats blame trans people and thinking that they’ll be safe, but that’s not guaranteed at all.

    I’m just saying, if you’re willing to accept excuses like, “Palestine isn’t on the ballot this year” then you’ll readily accept excuses like “trans rights aren’t on the ballot” and so on, until there’s no one left to stand up for you.

    Reject trolley problem thinking.

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      I’m autistic, and as far as I understand it, there seem to be two groups of people able to pass the trolley problem: psychopaths/sociopaths, and autistic people.

      I’m going to tell you something. I don’t think this is trolley problem thinking, although superficially it looks that way. I think this is the opposite of trolley problem thinking.

      Trolley problem thinking is having zero qualms about doing the thing which causes the most difficulty even when you personally would have to feel responsible for extremely negative consequences, in order to have the best possible outcome for the highest number of people.

      The Trolley Problem isn’t an illustration about the difficulty between choosing the deaths of a small number of people versus choosing the deaths of a large number of people. It’s a demonstration that a person has the ability to live with themself knowing that their actions had the best possible consequences in a no-win scenario.

      This person’s behavior isn’t an illustration of that. Ironically, the phrase “throw them under the bus” is appropriate here, because Eugene Vindman isn’t doing this for the purpose of winning, but instead because he lacks the ethics to feel that he is causing harm. He’s not doing it because he’s calculated that this will cause the best possible outcome, because if he had the ethics required for that kind of thinking, he would understand that the next step once transgender people are thrown under the bus is to be asked to throw another group under the bus. It’s weird how well this metaphor and the other metaphor illustrate how this is actually leads to more people being run over.

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        Philosophically it is a test for how far and long people will participate in unjust systems.

        It’s about the point people start questioning the system of charging someone with this choice, or the system that has people being lashed to trolley tracks as a point of principle.

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      What a weird take to try and justify the way morons didn’t vote to keep their own country functioning. Instead, they helped to directly destabilize the entire planetary governance system but somehow still think it was justified action.

      Other countries are not the scope of the US vote. Especially now more than ever.

      Conflating internal problems with external ones is just missing the point. Can’t have it both ways. Either the US dictates world policy and you accept that with that will come chaos to other nations, possibly without their consent. Or the US stays completely out of world policy, and you accept that with that will come chaos to other nations, possibly without their consent.

      It isn’t a trolley problem. Both sets of tracks are piled with bodies.

      You can’t have feelings and turn them into a non-vote that determines your own country’s downfall because of what happens in another country in either of those two scenarios, because destroying your own country helps nobody, and in fact has already led to the death of hundreds of thousands (mostly children) across the planet and many more will follow.

      Now, your own country is in jeopardy, and with that comes jeopardy to all the people in your nation and many other nations. Not just trans rights. Everyone’s rights. Everyone’s lives.

      RIP: critical thinking.

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        Other countries are not the scope of the US vote. Especially now more than ever.

        Conflating internal problems with external ones is just missing the point. Can’t have it both ways. Either the US dictates world policy and you accept that with that will come chaos to other nations, possibly without their consent. Or the US stays completely out of world policy, and you accept that with that will come chaos to other nations, possibly without their consent.

        This is the weird take. The decision to arm and support Israel is not “world policy,” it is US foreign policy. Calling on a change of US foreign policy to avoid causing harm and to stay out of other countries affairs is not “dictating world policy” it is the complete opposite of that. I would be perfectly fine with the US staying out of world policy, although you’ve also set up a false dichotomy here, it is possible to have a foreign policy that’s somewhere in between “complete isolation” and “arming and funding genocide.”

        To say “other countries are not the scope of the US vote” is utterly bizarre. Obviously US voters can, should, and do consider US foreign policy when casting votes. It’s also relevant to domestic policy because so much of our tax money is being wasted on the military rather than being used to address actual problems.

        Now, your own country is in jeopardy, and with that comes jeopardy to all the people in your nation and many other nations. Not just trans rights. Everyone’s rights. Everyone’s lives.

        RIP: critical thinking.

        Everyone’s rights would be in jeopardy either way. The only question is whether we allow the ruling class to divide us and turn against each other, like crabs in a bucket trying to screw each other over for our own advantage, or whether we attempt to forge a united front. If we betray each other, our defeat is completely inevitable, and all we’re doing is buying our in-group a little time. To stay united means a willingness to pass on some fleeting offer of short-term security for some of us, but in exchange we have an actual fighting chance in the long term.

        You think I’m not thinking critically only because you aren’t aware of the factors that I’m basing my analysis on. The immediate, direct outcome is not the only thing that matters. What we are now seeing, only a few years later, is the beginning of a massive shift towards more progressive, more antizionist politics.

        The conventional wisdom was always that if you run centrists who are essentially Republicans but like 10% less bad, then you’ll pick up the centrists and the left with fall in line behind the lesser evil, and so there is no reason to ever run progressives from the perspective of winning elections. If everyone followed your logic, then that’s where we would still be. But Harris’s loss is just one more point of data, together with the wave of progressives like Mamdani, that proves that theory false.

        However, if you think I’m being unreasonable, I don’t mind. A “reasonable” person (by your standards) would fall in line behind whatever garbage candidate was placed in front of them. To win in an electorate with enough “unreasonable” people means that you have to start caving to their demands.

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    Both of the Vindmans are wolves-in-sheep’s clothing and working for Israel. Vote them out.

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    The constituents can talk to their reps however they fucking want, that’s kind of enshrined in the constitution. The whole idea of “america is so great”, false though it was, was almost entirely based on the Bill of Rights in which the freedom to openly criticize one’s government is at the very top.

    If citizens can’t criticize their representatives, then they have no representation and we’re becoming a feudalist system with an untouchable aristocracy. That’s like centuries of regression.

    On the other hand, government officials should be held to a higher standard and need to maintain decorum in their own actions and words, so cussing out your constituents and then storming out is conduct unbecoming of the station and makes one unqualified to hold office.

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    Vindman is currently favored to beat Republican opponent Doug Ollivant in the November election, according to the Advocate. But one trans woman told the outlet that she’s frustrated that Vindman ran unopposed in the Democratic primary. She said the choice between the congressman and Ollivant feels like a choice between “callous dismissal and active hatred,” but that she felt she would “have to” vote for Vindman anyway.

    That’s what you end up with when you let these fuckers slide in the primary.

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      This is why the rhetoric around “The dems are unsalvageable. Elections will never save us” is so destructive. It discourages people from participating in the democratic processes in the first place.

      The very people who need to participate in it more in order for the system to work in our favor are the ones who are most likely to be dissuaded by this line of thinking. Of course democracy won’t work for us if we refuse to vote. That’s kind of how it works.

      If a progressive had run in that district’s primary, they might have won the nomination and this seat’s general election could be a completely different story. Of course that would also require progressive voters to show up and vote in the primaries.

      So the “don’t bother voting” crowd does twofold harm: they discourage progressives from running, and they discourage progressives from voting.

      We made our bed and now we have to sleep in it

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        I think you’re overstating the prevalence and influence of “don’t bother voting”. This feels more like trying to misplace blame on your fellow socialist who don’t believe in “electorialism” instead of blaming plutocrats and propaganda and the ideology of greed and individualism. Or blaming the party that had Harris run.

        There is a real danger in this heated rhetoric about voting. Like if you just vote harder it will work out this time. We must resist that lie. And don’t be surprised about some trolling if you try to sell that lie to a bunch of gnarly socialists. Imagine someone came to your house and told you something like “Yes, Trump is a bit bad, but he is with the angels and the power of religious faith surrounds him on all sides and just believing in Christ and praying will lead to an untold utopia!” I mean what would you say to such nonsense?

        But I don’t think it actually discourages a single progressive from running if they want to. Which means having to play a corrupt game if you want to actually gain power and rise to the top.

        If you want to actually do something I recommend some autonomous action.

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          Roughly a third of eligible voters abstained from voting in 2024. And you want me to pretend that for months leading up to it, the internet wasn’t flooded with self-proclaimed leftists screaming about how they won’t cast a vote and you shouldn’t either?

          Plutocrats and propaganda are certainly to blame. And if you think they don’t infiltrate leftist spaces on the internet to astroturf their agenda by posing as leftists, then their propaganda is working.

          Your entire second paragraph is disingenuous so I’m not going to bother. Comparing voting to door-to-door evangelism and prayer? Really?

          But I don’t think it actually discourages a single progressive from running if they want to.

          You don’t?

          If you want to actually do something I recommend some autonomous action.

          Okay fed.

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            Your entire second paragraph is disingenuous so I’m not going to bother. Comparing voting to door-to-door evangelism and prayer? Really?

            Their second paragraph is literally how the political opposition supporting Trump approaches their politics.

            Not bothering with a reality you do not wish to contend with is very on-brand here. Almost too much so.

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              And you’re they’re inserting that into this conversation as if it’s relevant to what we’re discussing, and then acting like I’m refusing to confront the reality of it when in fact all I’m doing is refusing to follow a red herring.

              Hence, it’s disingenuous and therefore very on-brand for you.

              Edit: just realized you’re a different commenter

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                It’s all a public conversation, which is the point. Unless you delete or edit yourself, it gets to stand publicly for scrutiny.

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                  That’s fine, I don’t see how that changes anything. It still wasn’t relevant to the conversation and doesn’t say anything about the stance I was actually taking. So I didn’t bother responding to it, because it was a red herring.

                  I could randomly say “Killing babies is evil”, but that doesn’t automatically mean that you support infanticide. And if you decide it’s not worth your time to say “Duh” then I’m not going to be like “Aha! Now it stands publicly for scrutiny. Are you sure you don’t want to delete or edit your comment?”

                  That’s honestly kinda batshit

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    “You can’t f**king talk to me that way,” Vindman reportedly responded, before walking away without taking any further questions.

    Bad news, sugartits. Your employers can talk to you any way they want.

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      That’s BS. My employer can’t talk to me anyway they want why should theirs. I don’t know what got him mad but saying you can say anything to a public employee is just wrong.

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          One woman accused Vindman of not listening to his constituents’ concerns about the bill and of showing his privilege. Another committee member told him he needed “to shut up and listen.” Vindman argued that he’d chosen to continue the conversation, but was being “attacked.” The same committee member reportedly told Vindman to “shut the fk up.”**

          I did RTFA, and a constituent just told him to shut up, listen, and check his privilege. No swearing involved.

          It was a committee member who specifically said to “shut the fuck up”, and it was that committee member that he snapped back at.

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            Mate, your quoted text even calls both of them committee members. They were from the King George County Democratic Committee, which is compromised of… *drum roll*… constituents!

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              Sure they are.

              But when you say constituent, you imply a random member of the public in the crowd.

              A committee member is at a peer-level. It hits harder when a peer drops the professionalism and the restraint and just lays it out like that…as opposed to some rando in the audience.

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                Today in explaining to Americans how their own government works…

                They’re not peers - it’s a group of volunteers that supports the Democratic Party. If I lived in the US, I could join today and attend as a committee member. They hold no office or position and have no authority.

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        I agree, although

        I don’t know what got him mad

        I mean, it’s right there in the article…

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    This guy should have been primaried. Now, without congressional recall elections, we have to live with him for another two years.

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    The problem with having a big tent party to unite everyone that isn’t actively a fascist is you get people who are still white-wing as fuck I suppose… disgusting anti-human representative, and somehow there’s still worse, what is wrong with our world

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      And note these fucks talk and talk all the time about wanting a “big tent”, then that narrative crumbles into fucking dust the moment leftist voters and DSA candidates enter the chat.

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          They’re invited in. They’re just expected to sit quietly in the corner while the old timers repeat the mistakes of the last old timers.

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            The “old-timers” are sucking up a lot of air on the media, but they lost control of the DNC in 2024.

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          It’s a big tent. It encompasses a diversity of opinions, and subjugates them all to the official party line.

          Honestly, in a way, parties that reject outsider opinions are more honest. They might be vile and despicable human beings with god-awful opinions and perspectives. But at least they’re not pretending to welcome disagreement only to stifle dissent when it counts; their party is full of true believers who aren’t being coerced into toeing the party line.

          Actually, on second thought, maybe they are being coerced, but in an entirely different way…

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    How about we try to organize a nationwide protest where we just act like our fucking representatives for a day or two. Get asked a question? Go the fuck home and get paid apparently. Disappear for weeks? Fuck it I’m working from home now apparently.

    I got written up and sent home once at work because my pants weren’t black enough and I was making 15¢ above minimum wage. Why does more money and power come with less responsibility?

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      Or, you could become an active participant in the process.

      Look up Jerry Falwell and the Moral Majority.

      Falwell was a TV preacher who figured out how to take over the GOP at the grass roots.

      If the local GOP had an average attendance of twenty people at the monthly meeting, Falwell’s folks would show up with fifty. It started out with them grabbing jobs like sheriff and county clerk, but it was a short step to Congressmembers and governors.

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        That would require 50+ people cooperate, which the left famously is extremely bad at.

        Hierarchical leadership styles might have a tendency to lean towards authoritarianism, but we can’t deny that they’re effective at organizing large numbers or people efficiently.

        The left tends to be allergic to even the idea of leadership, so it’s harder for someone to say “I need fifty people at this meeting, and a hundred people at that one” because most people would just be like “You can’t tell me what to do.”

        I know there’s a tendency to think of leadership as a cushy do-nothing position of privilege, and bad leadership can certainly be like that, but examples of good leadership exist even though they’re more rare in our current system.

        Coordinating and delegating large groups of people is a job in its own right, even if they’re not the ones swinging hammers and doing gruntwork. There needs to be a mind behind it all who sees the big picture and can follow a plan, receive reports and feedback and adjust as necessary. Leftists reallllly don’t like that idea. They’d be more likely to say “Oh yeah, why don’t you show up to all those meetings yourself?”, ignoring the fact that one person can’t be in multiple places at once, let alone participate as dozens of people at even one meeting.

        If the left wants to take over the Democratic party the way maga took over the GOP, we need to learn how to do central coordination in order to organize organize ourselves for large-scale and efficient mobilization.

        And we need to unify beyond everyone’s individual pet issues and stop competing for relevance as if anyone’s oppression is more important than anyone else’s. We’re all oppressed, it doesn’t matter who’s the most oppressed. We need to work together to fix this system, not fight each other over who gets the gold medal in the oppression olympics.

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    Th headline is misleading.

    Another committee member told him he needed “to shut up and listen.” Vindman argued that he’d chosen to continue the conversation, but was being “attacked.” The same committee member reportedly told Vindman to “shut the f**k up.”

    “You can’t f**king talk to me that way,” Vindman reportedly responded, before walking away without taking any further questions.

    No one has to take that sort of treatment.

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      People all over the world are treated much worse than that daily, but sure, clutch your pearls because someone said “shut the fuck up” 🙄

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        And they don’t have to. If I was talked to that way I’d get angry and most people would.

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        Are you… clutching your pearls because he responded by saying “you can’t fucking talk to me that way”?

        Weird to accuse someone of pearl clutching when all they really said was that his response was justified…

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      I’d argue his job is to listen to his constituents, and since through his actions or inactions this person is coming to harm, that he is not listening. Perhaps he should “Shut the fuck up and listen.” The problem is that while she’s talking, he’s not listening. He’s just waiting for her to stop talking so he can tell her that she’s wrong. This has been a big problem with the establishment of Democrats for a very long time.