This account is such a master baiter to both sides
I’d be uncomfortable if a person isn’t clothed and I’m not mentally prepared for it. No matter the looks.
I call bull shit. Last week I caught you furiously masturbating in the lemmy communal sauna. I would’ve believed you if you weren’t constantly yelling: “Oh God, I’m not mentally prepared. Oh God. Oh Please! I’m not ready!” You’re a bad liar.
As a nudist I could care less.
And I’d look. Just wouldn’t continuously stare. That’s kind of the nudist rule.
I was curious if this was some violet type shit and it kinda was lol. Good job
Reptile brain: LOOK! LOOK! LOOK!
Sentient brain: it’s rude to look so I’ll try my best not to
That fucking peripheral vision, target lower… no… it’s right down there, you can see it just not focus on it… no… you turn past to look somewhere else, eyes dip…FUCK YOU BRAIN…
Why are you nude with guests over? No offense intended. Genuine question.
we’re on a boat which is an ideal location to be perpetually nude (sunbathing, swimming, no need to go anywhere else, etc.)
Yes, thirst trap police, this comment right here
and also, you know, the implication.
They won’t refuse… because of the implication
I’m not doing anything, but the implication
Wow, the comments in this thread are surprisingly bad, even for a shitpost.
Having been in the situation myself, my thoughts were very much “let’s not make them uncomfortable” (meaning feel sexualised), but the first times (as a young’un) it got stiff enough (not that way :p) that the person chose to break the tension. Just don’t be weird about it and everyone can be comfortable.
There are plenty of situations and contexts where nudity isn’t sexual, and I highly recommend getting comfortable with that distinction. I find people and groups of all genders to become a lot more safe with that skill.
“I hope you put a towel down before sitting on that.”
I would probably just look. If there is no attempt at hiding anything then why should I attempt hiding looking?
That’s my take on it as well. I’ve played some party games where taking clothes off was part of it and I wouldn’t have participated if I was uncomfortable with people looking at me. It’s weird to me to think otherwise, like if you don’t want people looking is your intention just to make everyone uncomfortable? That’s not cool.
I actually find this gross, I’m assuming the roommate consented or else your are no better than the guys who flash people naked under a trench coat. But if he did, and he’s obviously so visibly uncomfortable, I can’t imagine as an empathetic person continuing to make them uncomfortable.
Even if them being uncomfortable was because they were trying not to make me feel uncomfortable. I can’t imagine the meme switched genders people would be so cool about it. I guess i could say if a pig has wings it would be a bird, but this is gross. Sorry.
It’s funny cause I just got mad at someone for saying something fucked up to a shitpost, but this doesn’t feel right at all.
Maybe first ask for context before getting so riled up?
Not everyone on this page has the same cultural background as you. In Germany for example it’s quite common to be naked at the beach/lake. Not everywhere obviously but common enough that a lot of us are not bothered by nudity as much as other cultures.
They posted the context, the person i hope they got consent from is trapped on a boat with them. Making escape impossible from possible discomfort. It’s even worse, it’s a fucking captive audience to torment. Again, I hope there was consent, I’d imagine that still exists in Germany. And again, as a human who’s aware of my effect on other people, I’d imagine they still have empathy in Germany, I wouldn’t want to make a person uncomfortable for my own benefit, that’s selfish and weird, and if it was a dude it would be fucking sinister. Because it’s a girl in the meme, people in the thread are answering with their pants around their ankles.
“Damn bro what happened to that chick you had over the other day? She was way prettier than this one”
Okay… that’s actually totally fair. If I was in a dunk tank, I would be in the water.
I don’t think I would like to see my friends naked male or female. I would be more ok with stranger nudity. It is not that I see someone naked and I immediately think of sex or I evaluate their body (though the latter is more likely than the former). It is just years of social conditioning that makes this situation very out of the ordinary and more awkward when someone I know is involved.
I have never encountered this situation. I literally am not even sure what situation it’s describing
A horny wet dream fantasy.
A “violet dream” if you will
Eh, I’ve lived a fairly sheltered life but I’ve been at a half dozen, maybe a dozen total parties and gatherings that had casual nudity and sometimes sex. Being in your twenties and going out much at all back in the late aughts, it wasn’t hard to find groups like that.
Oh… there are some clothing optional situations in life and for the most part nudity gets very normal very fast but there can be moments when an attractive woman is conspicuously putting her attractive self on parade and just daring you to notice. It’s like a clip from some mating dance on the nature channel somehow pasted onto humans.
This specimen of Homo sapiens, commonly known as a human, despite already having a lifelong partner, struts in front of another male to show off and make fun of him; the reasons why this happens are not yet clear, but it seems to be a way of causing trouble, which some individuals find pleasing and arousing.
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At that point just say “Nice tits” and get the awkwardness out of the way. I ain’t playing your little power game as one of those friends.
But …what if the tits aren’t nice?
Then you say “nice tits” and don’t look at em anymore.
Mean titties ya got there
Let me tell you about the worst pair of titties I ever saw; they were awesome
Well yeah but your grandma was hotter than most.
Then you say it sarcasticly. Or just flail your arms and say “Quaid, start the reactor”
Now that is god damned hilarious. Thank you.
Never go full Kuato! Seriously though, that’s hilarious.
“Will you please roll those up and put them away? I’m afraid I am going to trip”
Does not compute
? What?
Perfect username for this comment.
But also, it just depends. Sometimes it’s about the party, place, and people.
I don’t talk about it much in normal spaces, but a subset of my friends group is fairly routinely naked or (with consent) randomly and casually sexually interacting with others.
At the most recent party with this group, they had to explicitly say the party was kid-friendly until a certain point, to avoid pink bits and inappropriate demonstrations from happening while children were there. (And also to ensure parents knew to get their kids out of there.)
Examples of things that routinely occur -
Some of the women wear dog toy squeakers in their bra to encourage interaction with their boobs.
People just compare undergarments and anatomy. Folks just get partially/fully naked and hang out.
People get tied up on the suspension point in the living room.
The same mount point can also mount to a pole, and the pole can be swapped in if someone is feeling acrobatic.
Sex sometimes randomly happens. I’ve been involved in an impromptu threesome. (A twosome spun up and we had a guest appearance.) People leave doors open.
There’s a hot tub. People use it. (The rule is no bodily fluids in the hot tub.) I mean, it’s kinky people at a party. Not a kink party. But just people at a party that negotiate consent and things happen.Different rules for different groups, though. The point isn’t to make people uncomfortable or to play power games (doing that probably would lead to a conversation at minimum and possibly a loss of invitation to future parties), it’s to revel in the physical pleasure of interacting with others and to have fun with folks who like to express their exhbitionist tendencies. While also bitching about work and life and all the other things people do at parties.
Some of the women wear dog toy squeakers in their bra to encourage interaction with their boobs.
stealing this idea tysm
It sounds quite unpleasant, but maybe im thinking of different kinds of dog toys?
they sell the squeakers on their own separately so you can make your own, i have a big bag of them
Ahhh that makes more sense than jammer a literal rubber chicken down my bra
Hahaha!
My friend that does this bought a pack of 100 of just the squeakers and she always carries spares to share.
Although… the rubber chicken, which requires a lot less force to honk, might be a good option for the gents. But then they’d honk every time they sat down. Hm… ideas are brewing.
If you don’t play their power game then they wind up with a recording of you saying that which they’ll save indefinitely in case you ever run for political office.
Also so they can assassinate your character if you ever mildly inconvenience them.
bruh, ain’t no body in the political class here and this kompromat gathering is useless against a bunch of suburbanites that are vicariously living through their friend with the younger partner.
You don’t have to be part of the political class to run for office. That type of mentality is exactly how we wind up with a “political class” in-group who disenfranchises and sabotages the campaigns of any commoner who wants to run for office to serve their constituencies (i.e., their neighbors).
Besides, running for office isn’t the only thing that could be sabotaged by this. You could get blacklisted by all the companies in your area. You could get slandered on social media and lose the respect of all your friends and neighbors. Maybe you can’t go to a coffee anymore cause you won’t be able to trust that someone won’t spit in it.
All because someone recorded you saying “nice tits” and posted it devoid of the context that she was hanging out casually naked and deliberately trying to make you sweat.
When has that happened?
Probably the last time someone said “nice tits” in this situation
So you’re not thinking of any particular situation? You just made it up?
It doesn’t seem especially likely and you aren’t trying to convince me that it’s likely…
Holy shit, the gaslighting is astounding lately.
No you’re right it’s totally cool to comment on women’s breasts when you’re only vaguely acquainted with them. I’m sure that won’t land you in trouble, especially if you blame it on what she’s wearing (or not wearing, in this case). I’m sure that’ll go great for you!
Ah yes, the two options: “totally cool” and “totally blackmail” 🤣
It’s kinda like playing russian roulette. What do you think the odds are? 1 in 6? Higher, lower?
If your hanging about with your junk out I’m looking. If you don’t want me to look put your pants back on.
Used to have “Naked Tuesdays” with another couple we were friends with years ago. Just the four of us hanging out naked watching TV, maybe some other things happening. If you weren’t looking at anyone else, why even bother?
How was this started? Who brought the topic into conversation. Why Tuesday?
We always just got together on Tuesdays. Worked best for all four of us and work schedules.
I don’t really remember how it started. I think one day was just really hot outside and our apartment was cool, but me and the other guy took our shirts off. The girls got all jealous and took their off, and it just went from there. Every Tuesday after that was them arriving then clothes coming off.
Every day is nude day at my house. It’s so nice. I hate clothes.
My partner and I walk around often enough just naked. We live on a farm now with 14 acres and really no one around us.
We’re getting our deck expanded with a little bit of privacy from the road, so soon we can sit outside naked.
Yeah our backyard is secluded, love nude sunbathing.
Ah violet08 reincarnated again I see.
