VirusMaster3073@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 4 days agoWhat were you surprised to learn wasn't actually normal?message-squaremessage-square545fedilinkarrow-up1325arrow-down14
arrow-up1321arrow-down1message-squareWhat were you surprised to learn wasn't actually normal?VirusMaster3073@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 4 days agomessage-square545fedilink
minus-squareViskio_Neta_Kafo@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·edit-23 days agoFor me at least I think has is something like: If I’m odd and they don’t know me I’m just an odd customer. But if I’m odd and a regular than I’m an odd person they are thinking about a lot and that makes me nervous like I might mess up.
minus-squaremorrowind@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up4·3 days agoHonestly I prefer to be perceived as a little weird, because then you can be… A little weird without worrying about it. There isn’t really a what to what I’m afraid of. I’m not sure if it’s better or worse this way
minus-squarenotanapple@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·3 days agoExactly this with me too. If they know me I have to hold myself to different standards and more small talk and stuff like that. I have been trying to force myself to go to the same places but I usually fail. The only thing that works for me is going with someone else.
For me at least I think has is something like:
If I’m odd and they don’t know me I’m just an odd customer. But if I’m odd and a regular than I’m an odd person they are thinking about a lot and that makes me nervous like I might mess up.
Honestly I prefer to be perceived as a little weird, because then you can be… A little weird without worrying about it.
There isn’t really a what to what I’m afraid of. I’m not sure if it’s better or worse this way
Exactly this with me too. If they know me I have to hold myself to different standards and more small talk and stuff like that.
I have been trying to force myself to go to the same places but I usually fail. The only thing that works for me is going with someone else.