• the_riviera_kid@lemmy.world
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    No but it is cruel and a gross violation of bodily autonomy that should have huge amounts of jail time attached.

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      Thank goodness my parents said they would rather have left that choice to me when I was old enough. As an adult, why the fuck would I get circumsized unless you have a specific reason to do it?

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        2 天前

        I’m jealous that your parents cared enough to let you decide. I wish mine had done the same.

        As for why you would do it willingly I don’t know either.

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          I got the last laugh. I was cut as a newborn, but I still didn’t end up with the parts my parents wanted. They took a little snip. I went for the full origami of gender reassignment surgery. 🤣

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          A friend of mine did it for medical reasons. His foreskin was too tight to pull back, which made it really hard to clean, and I think there were some other problems associated with it as well.

          I’ve never heard about an adult getting circumcised as an adult for religious reasons, but I’m sure some people do it.

        • maturelemontree@lemmy.zip
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          I’ve heard that a lot. I’ve even had someone approach me after taking a public shower before and try to strike up a conversation about my bits. Sorry about your bits, brother.

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    OK but it is still a barbaric practice and I don’t see why we allow it. Just because it is culturally accepted does not make it OK.

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    Who… how could… what?

    … ah.

    “Parents have been concerned about this potential circumcision-autism connection, but hopefully these findings may help allay their fears,” says senior author Monica McGrath, research professor in the Bloomberg School’s Department of Epidemiology…

    Ah ok I understand now.

    “Parents”.

    Bigotry against autists is so extreme that idiot religious extremists will actually consider one of their more barbaric, senseless, cherished traditions as negotiable, relative to the utter ‘horror’ of their children potentially being autistic.

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        One way or another, they just can’t help but to cut you down and fit you into one of their simple little boxes they understand.

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    What? Who are these people that were even linking these two things? I’m actually shocked I can still be surprised by stupidity.

    They should still stop doing it though.

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    You’re against circumcision because you believe it causes autism.

    I’m against circumcision because I believe genitally mutilating non-consenting infants is an atrocity.

    We are not the same.

    • Sludge@sh.itjust.works
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      Agree and all, but to add - I road bike and run ultra marathons. When doing super long distances, you’re gonna end up chafing a bit (probably). I would much rather my foreskin get the rub as opposed to THE SENSITIVE TIP OF MY DICK.

      You know what really hurts? Water hitting raw skin that’s been rubbed in shorts or a bike bib for 4+ hours.

      I’m sure it will have negative long term impacts to my ability to be stimulated.

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        Yeah, something a lot of people don’t realize is that circumcized dicks lose a lot of sensitivity due to the excessive friction they go endure throughout each day just by moving around normally.

        I read somewhere that intact dicks are basically a mucus membrane underneath the foreskin. That’s wild, my dick skin is more like the skin on the back of my hand. No wonder people are so obsessed with sex, it must feel so damn good for uncircumcised people. Something I’ll never experience. Damn religion.

    • slaacaa@lemmy.worldOP
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      Agree. I’m from Europe and I find it very weird how common it is in the US

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        I’m from the US and didn’t circumcise my son. It’s really simple. Who doesn’t want more penis? I’d take more penis. Penis is all good. Why subtract penis?

        When my older brother had a son he DID circumcise him. When I asked why, he gave me this head shake as if to say “huh? what?” and all he said was “that’s just how they do it at the hospital we went to.”

        I mean labor and childbirth are a whirlwind so I don’t blame anyone for losing a detail or two. Unless that detail subtracts a part of my penis. Then we gone fight.

        • epicurean_toast@lemmus.org
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          I have a hard time faulting people for following a doctor’s recommendation if that’s what was going on.

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            That’s overstating it. There wasn’t even a conversation about it let alone anything as strong as a doctor’s recommendation. More like a default hospital protocol. Which I’m sure you’d agree should be open to question.

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        It’s SO common in the US that while growing up I felt ashamed and incredibly self concious of being uncircumsized in high school showers. Life’s so strange.

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          Thankfully the millennial generation has started doing away with circumcising our children. Last time I checked, which was admittedly 10 years ago, the circumcision rates were closer to 50/50 in the US.

          Update: It’s dropped below 50%!

          “We reviewed over 1.5 million U.S. hospitalizations of male neonates, ages 0 to 28 days, during the period 2012 to 2022, and found that the overall prevalence of hospitalizations where a neonatal male circumcision was performed decreased significantly, from 54.1% to 49.3%,” says study co-senior author Aaron Tobian, M.D., Ph.D., professor of pathology at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. “Decreases were observed across most patient and hospital subgroups, including whites — a group with traditionally high circumcision rates — where circumcisions dropped 5.3% over the decade studied.”

          https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/news/newsroom/news-releases/2025/09/johns-hopkins-study-newborn-male-circumcision-rates-in-us-dropped-between-2012-and-2022

          • taj@lemmy.world
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            My husband started out with the “he should look like me…” and then quickly came around after a bit of reading. The Adam Ruins Everything on circumcision is great!

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            It’s good to know it’s moving toward not maiming kids. I’m afraid to ask about vaccination rates because my sister’s kids are of questionable status on that front, and my sister won’t talk about such things. Very alternative hippy type.

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              I wish the stats were even better than they are now honestly. I think it’s a horrendous practice.

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          It’s not really a thing outside the USA? At least not in Canada anymore. I’m one of a bunch of kids and about halfway through my siblings they stopped recommending it.

          Confused the hell out of 8 year old me tasked with giving my 3 year old brother a shower.

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        The first time I saw an un-circumcised penis was in porn when I was in my early 20s, I think. What little sex ed we had in the rural US in the '80s and early '90s didn’t even have an image of one that wasn’t circumcised so far as I recall. I thought it was some kind of birth defect or something.